A losing stratagem I adopted in my late teens and early twenties. It sounds good but wayward stars are not reliable guides (i.e., no fixed reference). The light will eventually go out, and it WILL leave a scar.
God’s primary cure for mankind is to cure our waywardness (i.e., going one’s own way rather than God’s way) (Proverbs 1:32-33; Isaiah 53:5-6; Hebrews 5:2).