The Woman I’ve Become

I’m curves with a backbone, perfume with a bite
I’m soft when I want but I’m fire on sight
Wisdom hit different when you earned every scar
and still I will always reach for the stars 

I’m a woman in full now, petals and flame
I learned my own worth before learning your name
I don’t need rescuing, lifts, or a crown
I rise on my own when the world knocks me down

See, the woman who’s walked through her shadows alone
But I’m open to love if it matches my tone
I’m tender by choice now, not by default 
I can melt in your hands but stand firm in my faults

I’m seasoned not salty, flavored just right 
Wisdom in my stride, got my own damn light 
I stopped askin’ for space in somebody’s life
I built my own peace… cut clean like a knife

I’m grown… and it feels divine to admit
that I finally love the woman I’ve grown into bit by bit
Self-reliant, aligned, with my boundaries tight 
a mature woman shining in her own fight
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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Callus Avatar
December 10, 2025 at 4:10 AM
I have followed many of the ups and downs of your life experiences, Brenda, and I am glad that the present day version of YOU is one that augers well for now and future yrs. The end stanza is awesome!! ~ Warm regards // paul
Chiri Avatar
March 15, 2026 at 10:01 PM
Thank you Paul I appreciate the read and love the comment!
Parker Avatar
December 5, 2025 at 7:57 PM
Spice Girl #6: Poetry Spicy. Sizzling recognition of a woman full grown. Photo update reveals it all: confident,. smiling, knowing, ready. Sa-weet piece, BC.
Chiri Avatar
December 5, 2025 at 11:44 PM
Arlo lol Thank you my friend! Seasoned just right;)
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December 5, 2025 at 8:14 AM
I LOVE THIS. May I present to you, the poem of the year award. A fave of course of course. xomo
Wolf Avatar
December 6, 2025 at 9:22 PM
I'm with you, Mo. ... Coming from a woman it's more authentic, however. ~ Second Fiddle
Chiri Avatar
December 5, 2025 at 11:45 PM
Hahaha! Maureen why thank you so much! I’m happy you really liked it! :)
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