'The Real Me' vs 'The Real Him'

I look in the mirror and what do I see an overripe version of the ‘real me’ A little less hair than before let’s just say, the Vietnam War A little more flesh, especially ‘round the neck two chins instead of one when I inspect Wrinkles around and crow feet at the edges of my eyes, no longer alarm or surprise Facial hairs sprouting at such a rapid rate I grow a full beard on a dinner date... Yet if in that mirror were another ~ I'd be glad I didn't share his fate