The way we live our every day life is what determines the way others think of us. What others think of you IS your reputation. It is what people say about you when you aren't there to hear it. And what PEOPLE THINK OF YOU IS WHAT THEY WILL THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN AND THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY TOO. If they don't respect you they won't respect your kids. Think about that. The way you act does not just affect YOU it affects your whole family. Try to give them something to be proud of not a reason to hang their heads when they are out in public.
Also, when your last day comes, WILL He call your name. I sure hope He calls mine.