Start Courting Again

There comes a time in every marriage, 
when a certain junction is reached. 
When you or your spouse will start to think, 
that your love has reached it's peak. 

When times like this come around, 
do something other than you have been. 
Forget the NOW and the rut  your in 
and just start courting again. 

A gentle touch for no reason at all, will start you on your way. 
A spontaneous dance with no music, anytime of the day. 
A trip just for ice cream as a midnight treat, 
don't forget that all important massage for the feet. 

During a marriage you are bound 
to fall in and out of love time and again. 
The true art of staying married, is that you don't fall 
out of love at the same time in the end. 

If you can recognize this when it occurs, 
you can get past this little crisis and then, 
take the steps needed to bring back the love, 
once you start courting again. 

A kiss when you pass in the hall, 
or a hot passionate telephone call. 
Streak through the house buck nekkid together, 
Skinny dip in any weather. 
Feed each other red ripe strawberries, 
any thing silly you did when first married. 

You may think I'm crazy or I've lost my mind. 
But just put away those fears, 
this has worked for my Husband and I, 
for the past thirty five plus years. 

It doesn't have to cost lots of money. 
In fact it's better when free. 
I bet when you first married, you were as broke, 
as any new couple would be. 

Take these words of advice to heart 
And have fun when your with her or him. 
Just keep it spontaneous and silly, 
when you start courting again.



For Amy Green's contest
Choose One, Have Fun
My choice:  Marriage
Placement: 5th place
Copyright © | Year Posted 2010

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Guzzi Avatar
July 20, 2010 at 6:41 PM
Wiser words were never said! Congrad's on your fine win! Light & Love
Brown Avatar
July 19, 2010 at 8:38 AM
Congratulations Paula on your well deserved win in Amy Green's contest "Choose One, Have Fun". Love, Carol
Sweetheart Avatar
July 16, 2010 at 3:40 PM
Congrats Paula on your winning poem in Amy's contest with this wonderful write .. enjoy another win in the spotlight at the winners circle.. with luv..
Devonshire Avatar
July 16, 2010 at 2:55 PM
Very good advice in your well-written poem, Paula. Congratulations on your win! Love, Carolyn
Green Avatar
July 16, 2010 at 2:37 PM
"Skinny dip in any weather. Feed each other red ripe strawberries, any thing silly you did when first married." Wise words from a wise woman. This poem, alone, could be the prescription to divorce...if followed correctly and closely. Excellent job on this and congrats.
Culverhouse Avatar
June 28, 2010 at 10:23 PM
sounds fun to me
Mehta Avatar
June 27, 2010 at 7:19 PM
Nice thoughts nicely worded. Good luck in the contest
Falotico Avatar
June 27, 2010 at 1:05 PM
I agree with all said below... wonderful write and should be a winner ...enjoyed....Michael
Mason Avatar
June 27, 2010 at 12:52 PM
Great write and definitely a winner for a winner in life ... you learned so many things I never did with 3 unsuccessful marriages behind me ... too selfish I guess ... smile ... great write here, Paula and congratulations on your 35+
Goff Avatar
June 27, 2010 at 12:36 PM
...truly words of wisdom!!! outstanding! Paula! jimbo
Kendrick Avatar
June 27, 2010 at 12:31 PM
Great write that should be in the winners' circle..Good luck...Keep the creative pen flowing..Sara
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