Reconciliation

My father was an athlete
And a soldier at eighteen.
He never told us anything
About the things he’d seen.

He worked at selling shoes,
Mostly for children, in a store,
Six days a week, a different life
From fighting in a war.

I tried to reconcile those halves,
Both aspects of my dad,
But snapshots with his army pals
Were all the proof I had

Of that early version of the man
Who never had the time
To retire and relax because
He died while in his prime.

He never knew his grandkids,
Had no condo in the sun,
Yet he was loved and that’s what counts
When all is said and done.

So Happy Birthday, Daddy!
Your four children have your smile
And I guess that’s quite enough for me
To need to reconcile.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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Delegans Avatar
December 31, 2025 at 12:29 PM
Wow, Ilene. This one hit home. I lost my Father when I was 18 and he was 50. Two combat tour Vietnam vet. There were things he never shared but you could tell it weighed on him heavily. A lot of reconciliation took place over the years before I could reflect clearly. Your ability to describe this in your poem is perfect. The title choice fits just right.
Bauer Avatar
December 31, 2025 at 12:43 PM
thank you so much, christopher! i love to get comments from someone who can relate to what i've written in some way. best wishes for a happy and healthy new year!
Pettit Avatar
December 30, 2025 at 1:00 PM
Nice write again, Ilene. Have you ever read my poem dedicated to you titled "Ilene Can Write"?
Bauer Avatar
December 31, 2025 at 12:44 PM
thanks, robert! i hadn't read it, but i've corrected that situation and appreciate the honor. have a happy new year!
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