Nothing Dear

Few men can claim understanding
Of the workings of a woman’s mind
It’s great if they’re smart and it’s great if they’re fun
And a ‘plus’ is a gorgeous behind

Partner or wife, if the girl in your life
Is sporting a tear in her eye
No man ever knows if she’s happy or sad
But no man dare ever ask why

And yet if a man should just stare into space
An unfocused infinity glare
That distant expressionless look on his face
Means he’s not seeing anything there

But she will dig deep into his rationale
Prodding for what’s in his mind
Alas, ‘Nothing, Dear’ will never suffice
As an answer he struggles to find

            ***

The thing about men is we think all the time
But sometimes not in a straight line
Incomplete thoughts that will not form a whole 
From the light or a very deep hole

Thoughts that - however we try - will not gel
Thoughts twisting, not ringing a bell
Thoughts fit for heaven and then fit for hell
Thoughts of birth or a sullen death knell

And then she will say, ‘What you thinking about?’
We say ‘nothing’ (we can’t work it out)
But when she’s insistent, ‘You ARE thinking something!’
The best we can tell her is ‘Nothing.’

Once, we were happy to juggle these notions
Yet now we must share our emotions
But when we say ‘Nothing,’ it isn’t absurd
When our mind is blank… just take our word
Copyright © | Year Posted 2022

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Gaul Avatar
September 23, 2022 at 5:38 AM
Well said. Difficult to do.
Flood Avatar
September 23, 2022 at 11:27 AM
The trouble is, Greg. You can’t tell your wife that you were so engrossed on infinity because you were seeking a pertinent rhyme for ‘vermillion’. Maybe if she was into poetry, but otherwise… nah! Appreciate your visit, Greg. Terry
Dietrich Avatar
July 27, 2022 at 12:42 PM
A fun poem, but maybe a bit stereotyped. I am sure some men act like women in some of these regards and vice versa. If I see hubbie looking off into space, I don't even ASK. hahahah
Flood Avatar
July 27, 2022 at 2:58 PM
Stereotyped? Moi? Glad you spotted it was just a bit of fun, Andrea. Terry
Cunningham Avatar
July 26, 2022 at 1:45 PM
We could live ten life times trying to fathom out a womans mind and we wouldn't come anywhere close. Tom
Flood Avatar
July 26, 2022 at 1:51 PM
Thanks, Tom. You’re not wrong. Terry. P.S. congrats on your POTD. Regret not had time to read properly yet, but I will.
Proxenos Avatar
July 24, 2022 at 8:07 AM
Women are complex not complexed, creatures Terry. Men husbands and partners will never be able to work them out altogether, to a degree maybe, but, we do think, unless you have a daughter who would be on a par with your wife, that we are the most important woman, - daughters - women in your life. How could you possibly say, see or even think something that could distress or stress us. To use a South African saying 'AG' we are not so bad really , after all we love you'. Hugs and blessings, JENNIFER.
Flood Avatar
July 24, 2022 at 11:50 AM
Blimey O’reilly, I feel like I just got told off? Ha ha… seriously though, even when Annie drives me nuts, I wouldn’t be without her. I might have an enormous gin though. ;-) Terry
Anaya Avatar
July 22, 2022 at 5:33 PM
I listen to Dr. Wendy Walsh's Love Hacks 'Priming' is when you start every day by saying a compliment (or something positive) to your partner. So instead of complaining, start with a compliment or some good news! It'll make a huge difference! Fun poem!
Flood Avatar
July 23, 2022 at 2:21 AM
Thanks Anaya, I’ll take your advice. Tomorrow morning I shall say something positive, like, er… Yes Darling, I’m positive your bottom looks big in that.’ That should do it! ;-)
Rodrigues Avatar
July 22, 2022 at 12:08 PM
Funny write about men and woman. I think it takes a lifetime to get it right! No longer as inquisitive, just merely sharing loving space. Write on, Terry!
Wolf Avatar
July 24, 2022 at 6:27 PM
Hiccup does.
Flood Avatar
July 22, 2022 at 12:25 PM
Thanks, Kim. That’s just how it should be. Actually, the most recent time that Annie asked me what I was thinking so intently about, I was able to give her this answer… What rhymes with Archbishop? Well, she did ask.
Wolf Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 8:41 PM
Every woman should be required to read, if not regurgitate this! :)
Wolf Avatar
July 24, 2022 at 6:26 PM
Ha, ha! Terry's the expert. I'm just along for the ride... Cheers, gw
Rodrigues Avatar
July 22, 2022 at 12:09 PM
Whoa whoa whoa…sooo my friend, you’ve become an expert on women, eh…lol! ;) Kim
Bauer Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 10:34 AM
wonderful poem, terry! the first verse is my favorite, but you've made a very good point here about the different ways men and women think - and they are very different!
Flood Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 12:17 PM
Thank you, Ilene. As I just told Milt, I’ve fiddled a little with the end as it took a conscious effort to find the ending rhythm. I think it flows better now. Terry
Hankins Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 8:13 AM
Fantastic! I have often wondered why it is so important that they know what we are thinking! Most of the time we don't know what we are thinking, especially when put on the spot. Very interesting inquiry, Terry.
Flood Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 12:15 PM
Thanks, Milt. I’ve just tweaked the last two stanzas as they seemed a little out of kilter. Glad you enjoyed.
M  Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 6:16 AM
Great poem Terry….but still doesn’t change mens frustrating behaviour !! Haha…..Debx
Flood Avatar
July 21, 2022 at 6:27 AM
I think we must go with the Venus and Mars philosophy on that one, Deb.
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