Never Hit a Child With a Belt

Never hit a child with a belt.
Don't hit them with a fist.
Don't hit them with a whip.
Don't hit them with a chain.

Never hit a child.
It breaks their heart.
It makes them sad.
It makes them mad.

Never hit a child.
It hurts their feelings.
It makes them cry.
It makes them manic.
It makes them depressed.

Never hit a child.
If you want to hit a child
seek help at once.
Because you'd better do that
Because you don't want to raise
a schizophrenic or a manic depressive or a drug addict
Right?

Never hit a child.
With a belt.

The angriest, saddest, maddest, meanest
ready-to-fight children,
The ones who needed me the most,
the ones who frightened me the most
the ones who hurt animals and called
names and spit on people and slapped
people in the face until the people 
cried and cried.

They were all hit by belts
by their mothers.
Every single one of us.

Never hit a child with a belt.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2018

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Wolf Avatar
April 17, 2018 at 9:14 AM
Sage advice, Caren. I was routinely hit (by my father) and occasionally switched with a belt out in the woodshed til I couldn't sit down for a week. I vowed never to do that to my kids. Yet I found myself instinctively raising my hand to hit them for a good 10 years! IT WAS AWFUL. I finally stopped blaming things on my father & looked in the mirror. I realized that one raised eyebrow was all that was required to make my point. -TY-CK! ~gw
Krutsinger Avatar
August 31, 2018 at 12:53 AM
You stopped the abuse, Gershon. It is not easy, but we are living proof it can be done.
Gauthier Avatar
April 15, 2018 at 11:06 AM
What a heartbreaking poem. The message is so raw and clear. It's awesome how poetry releases so much pent up anger, Caren. Well done.
Krutsinger Avatar
April 16, 2018 at 1:14 AM
thank you Line.
Sietesantos Avatar
April 15, 2018 at 10:33 AM
This powerful piece hits hard against child abuse. It is too rampant in the world and your message is loud and clear. BRAVO and thank you for spreading this strong message to protect our children and do our jobs to raise them right. Hugs. Pandita
Krutsinger Avatar
April 16, 2018 at 1:15 AM
I want to grab some of my children up and run home with them and never let them go back.
Michael Avatar
April 15, 2018 at 6:40 AM
It took some time in our history to realize the whip is to subjugate ourselves...a wicked thing indeed...using a belt on a child transfers hate and teaches to be mean...Nice one Caren...Happy Sunday to you...
Krutsinger Avatar
April 16, 2018 at 1:15 AM
Thank you Arturo. Thanks for stopping by, I was brave here, and I think it paid off.
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