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Judgmental

“When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.”
                                                              ~  Earl Nightingale


Why is it we are judgmental about others based on their mistakes?
If you envision yourself as one who's guilty of that, apply the brakes.
We shouldn't be obsessed with another person's faults and flaws.
If we are to be honest with ourselves, we need to sheath our claws.

Often, we pass a verdict on ourselves based on our past behavior,
but that's a conversation to be discussed between us and our savior.
There is only One who has the right to judge each and every one of us.
No ifs, ands, or anything else about criticizing others is there to discuss.

I don't sit on a bench in a black robe and there's no gavel in my hand.
If ever I evaluate someone else, I should be given a stern reprimand.
It's true, we will be gauged by the method in which we measure others.
We'd all have positive thoughts of family and friends, if I had my druthers.

Leave those stones on the ground instead of hurling them at anyone.
You don't know what harm you can do, or what you've already done.
Being judgmental can be very cruel and categorizing people is rude.
Society judges us by class and race. It's time for a change of attitude.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2023

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Seeker Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 10:14 AM
Wise words, Lin. We are each, unique. Accepting all as they are, respecting the journey of each soul, we are at peace.
Lane Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 10:35 AM
Gracious thanks, Seeker.
Allison Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 8:37 AM
A powerful piece Lin, I have 2 poems written for the contest, judgement and jealousy, will see which one I decide to post, sadly sometimes judgment is passed by someone who isnt capable of rational behaviour and nothing will ever make them change their attitude:-( hugs jan xx
Lane Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 9:41 AM
Your comprehension of those who THINK they are qualified to judge others is correct, Jan. Narcissistic people have tunnel vision and all they see is what they choose to see. I look forward to reading the one you choose, and I hope it's the one I speculate that you'll use. Thanks so much.
Buhagiar Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 8:27 AM
I was not joking when I said I stand in awe of your poems, I admired the quote, but above all the content of your poem. Judge not, lest you will be judged, Incredibly metaphysical.
Lane Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 9:38 AM
Jan, we have such a strong bond between us that nothing short of death will come between us. Thank you for giving credibility to my poetry. Love ya!
Lane Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 9:35 AM
Victor, your comments have always been taken seriously by me, and for every one of them I've been very grateful. Only God has the right to judge us.
Allison Avatar
July 8, 2023 at 8:38 AM
I agree Victor, Lin writes exquisitely constructed poems which are always a joy to read. x
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