It's Hard To Be a Woman

It's hard to be a woman, I confess
Must care about your looks, your walk, your dress
you're told time and again, you're meant to please
and so you wax, and shave, and pluck and tweeze

It's hard to be a woman, I confess
you need time to dress up AND to undress!
Your dainty negligee's there to entice
when love is done, you rush to add the spice

The soup is bubbling over, must work fast
desert's still baking, make the supper last
when supper's done, the kitchen you must clean
And God forbid if you've no time to preen

Before they're all tucked in, make sure to pray
That you will shine at work and then at play
You get between the sheets and sweetly sigh
"My lover dear, close eyes, I'm close nearby

And should you wake from sleep and need some cheer
the kind that man all need from ladies dear
Well, then reach out and fill your every whim
Just let me sleep on through, keep those lights dim

I need to wake up early, feed the clan
and put away each dish and pot and pan
I need to rush to work to serve my boss
If I'm not there on time, oh, he'll be cross

Before the day is done, I'll get a wax
In fight against those hairs, I can't be lax
Perhaps I'll get back home by half past six
In time to add some nuts to patty mix!"

It's hard to be a woman, night time creams
and aging nightmares clash with youthful dreams
It's hard to be a woman; rub those heels!
make sure you're baby soft, use fancy peels

It's hard to be a woman and play dumb
So's not to scare the macho minded chum
It's hard to be a woman and appease
When no one says, "Thank you", or "Dear", or "Please!"

It's hard to be a woman, but I am
I'll spread that peanut butter and that jam
But I'll not hide the fire in my soul
to make some man feel strong, completely whole

It's hard to be a woman, this I know
that eyes are watching everywhere I go
It's hard to be a woman, glory be
No one can be a woman quite like me!!!

Eileen Manassian
Copyright © | Year Posted 2017

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Lamoureux Avatar
July 8, 2017 at 9:23 AM
Love that song!
Lamoureux Avatar
July 6, 2017 at 11:44 AM
I love it! So much fun but with an undercurrent of truth. You made me glad I'm a man. Mind you now days men are doing a lot of man scaping. *lol*!!!
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:25 AM
lol....I guess both genders have a lot to deal with. Sometimes I revel in being a woman and at other times....well, I think I'd like a walk on the other side for a day to see what it's like. ;) Have you heard Beyonce's song, If I were a Boy?
Downing  Avatar
July 4, 2017 at 11:13 PM
Haha... I am so with you in this one. I love it and faving it :)
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:25 AM
I'm honored, dear. Thanks ever so much! :)
Inman Avatar
July 3, 2017 at 7:53 PM
I read this with the greatest of admiration Eileen.
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:29 AM
What a sweet comment. Thanks ever so much! :)
Andresen Avatar
June 28, 2017 at 2:58 PM
- Gave me a lot of smile, Eileen :) - A simpler life to be a man ... let her hair grow :) - Greetings and warm hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:34 AM
Your sunshine smile warms me, dear. Thank you for your cute comment. Hugs
Roper Avatar
June 24, 2017 at 4:18 PM
Love your poem, Eileen, we are all different, but we do almost everything the same if we care about ourselves ..... ~*
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:38 AM
:) Thanks, sweetie. In the community here, women are supposed to look top notch all the time. I'm talking about the cultural norms in Lebanon, not my faith group. It can get tiring. Thanks for the visit. Hugs
Salehi Avatar
June 20, 2017 at 11:56 AM
Your painting of "the woman" is a beautiful mindscape.
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:38 AM
Thank you, Pashang. That is the ideal. Few of us mortal women can attain it.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
June 19, 2017 at 9:03 AM
How true! Awesome write lovely! Mum would say to me "you'll never find a man if you don't shave and don't stop eating so much garlic" LOL I imagine you and your feminist principles being a magnificent role model for your daughter. Bless xoxo
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:42 AM
My daughter is way past me, dear Maureen. She grew up in a country where women are very liberated. Takes that "you better shave" to a whole new level! ;) Thanks for your delightful visit.
Allison Avatar
June 18, 2017 at 5:57 PM
oh you sure made me smile Eileen its so great to read this tongue in cheek write!:-) that final stanza packs a punch - go tell em girl! hugs jan xx
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:45 AM
:) Thanks for being on my side. Your cheer leading resonates in my heart. How have you been? I've been so crazy busy I haven't had much time on PS. I will visit you soon as I'm done with commenting. Hugs, dear.
Callus Avatar
June 18, 2017 at 4:59 PM
Gosh!! What an entertaining write, Eileen!! Housewives have it hard, but career-housewives have it even harder! But is it enough to make you wish for a sex change!! I love the ending...so it appears that there is also pride in being a woman:) Go show 'em you'll not be overcome! Hugs // paul
Manassian Avatar
July 7, 2017 at 4:50 AM
:) No sex change for me, dear. I'm quite happy. Just need the world to see and applaud! ;) I've been too busy for PS lately...either that...or too tired. I'm trying to get some writing in today. Sending you warm hugs, dear.
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