Don't you just hate it when someone tells you what you're thinking or feeling. No matter what you say they will tell you 'No you're not' it's really the way THEY perceive your words or actions. Then you stand there and get so mad you could burn into a little black cinder because you can't convince them of your innocence. What most people don't realize is that they read their own reactions into whatever is going on at the time. In other words they expect out of you what THEY THEMSELVES would do in any given situation. It doesn't matter that the thought never crossed your mind. They think that's what you were thinking or feeling because that's the way THEY would react and that's that. Give people like that a wide berth. All they'll do is give you ulcers and spread bad news about you. The less opportunity you give them the less ammo they have to use against you.