I Don'T, But...

It is simply shocking how a teeny conjunctive word, a tiny little "but" becomes precursor for the agony of some. I will explain exactly what I mean. Example: Have you ever had a conversation like the following? The person talking saying, "having this to add I'm not intending hurting your feelings but...then proceeds to do precisely what he said he wouldn't do. Explanation? It's ignorance! Instead of keeping shut his haughty mouth, ending conversation. Continues hurting monologue uncut until your forced to say, you kiss my butt!