I Do

A wedding is about the bride and groom
So why does everyone jump to assume
That they're opinions means the bible
It's mothers and daughters that create this vicious cycle

Moms want to throw their daughter the best day ever
They're reluctant to think their dreams aren't the brides endeavor
Its one day in life
With all strings attached
My energy sure feels the bite

No matter how hard you try,
People flake or become insane
You begin to wonder, why?

Then Eloping doesn't sound so mad
All that matters is the bride walks down the isle with the dad
The groom takes her hand
A strong love is witnessed and spread across the land. 

Daughters keep your head and will strong
It's about you and the groom, 
That's where the power belongs
Don't let other steal your focus
The moment you say “no”
Treasured friendships may become bogus 

Everyone else, keep your mouth shut
Wish there was a nicer way to say this,
I'll just be blunt
Doesn't matter what you think or do
For once in your life,
This day isn't about you!
Copyright © | Year Posted 2013

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Posey Avatar
June 24, 2013 at 5:58 AM
Hmmmm, Mother-in law beware.... Sharon is on the loose. You gotta remember who's paying for this gig. ...... I love it!! A refreshing breath of great advice... Have a happy day.... Jake
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June 6, 2013 at 10:54 PM
This writing, coming from a female perspective, is deeply, truly refreshing. This day is supposed to be about "US" not ME ME ME. It's one of several reasons why I'm in absolutely no rush to get married. I could go on & on about this. Thank you for writing this common sense filled piece.
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