Holding Back Tears

Breathe deeply
Drink cold water
Squeeze a stress ball
Tense up your muscles
That's easy enough if I don't want tears.

Tilt your head back
Imagine your happy place
Step away from the situation
Watch and listen to something funny
So far, stopping tears seems to be a doable task.

The above are 8 out of 13 tips given by a web site*.
Granted, if one wanted to take such tips, it would
be easy enough. But would it be advisable to                                                                                                                       
'hold back tears' intentionally ?  I suspect if there                                                                                     
were 'dam breaking tears', that would be another                                                                                       
matter. However, tears are where they are for a reason,                                                                                                       
and I suspect that it is a very healthy exercise to allow                                                                               
them to escape once in a while.                                                                                                        

Nevertheless, I am most intrigued by tip number 7,  'Step away                                                          
from the situation'.  In my case, I would be inclined to step away                                                          
before the build-up begins. For example, I do not like 'tear-jerker'                                                         
movies. So, where possible, I avoid them. Just listen to me. I'm saying                                               
that tears are a healthy and wholesome outlet. But yet, under certain                                            
circumstances, I seek to avoid them. Is that a contradiction or what?    Maybe, perhaps, possibly, probably.  I suspect it is. But that's just me.  

072921PSCtest, This Or That, Vol 5, Edward Ibeh
*Wiki How   to do anything...
Copyright © | Year Posted 2021

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Sands Avatar
July 30, 2021 at 7:26 AM
I agree that it is not helpful to hold back natural tears that can bring much cleansing and strength to follow :)
Johnson Avatar
July 30, 2021 at 7:44 AM
Thanks Heide. And thanks for your well stated and insightful comment about cleansing. Blessings.
Krutsinger Avatar
July 29, 2021 at 8:34 PM
You make a valid point; it is never "advisable to hold back tears'.
Johnson Avatar
July 29, 2021 at 9:07 PM
Thanks Karen. It just seems right.
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