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I had just posted a funny pic on Facebook about a woman complaining about her weight saying, "I wish I could lose weight as easily as I lose my keys, pen, cell phone, and even my mind." It was all in good fun, and I got some cute responses from some lady friends. After a while, I got a notification on Facebook that someone wanted to chat with me. It was a student of mine whom I'd just had a talk with today. Here is what he said: Mrs. Eileen, do not worry about losing weight. You look gorgeous to me. Although it is better to be in a healthy body, but do not be troubled about it. You look awesome. Truly you are the best teacher ever." He wasn't doing that to butter me up either because he doesn't take any courses with me now. Isn't that sweet? When I told him I wish he knew me in my glory days, this is what he wrote: "You are still in your glory days." Well, that is what I call a present. Something to lift up the spirits. There are so many who just try to tear a person down. We never know the struggles people face, and sometimes just that one discouraging word is enough to push them over the edge. In the same way...that one encouraging word is enough to pull them back up from the edge. Oh that we would be careful of what we say. To bring cheer and not fear. That would be wonderful. As for me....I'm happy with my cyber gift of encouragement. Have you had such a gift today? I hope so. Hugs, Eileen

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Timothy Hicks

Date: 1/27/2015 5:34:00 PM

A story worth sharing, Eileen. I know it's a bit silly coming from me, but I've always thought age was more of a mindset and a choice of attitude. My grandpa has a lot of health problems, is perpetually tired, and all of his teeth or falling out... but I don't think I've seen someone so full of smiles as he. And even though I'm sure he doesn't feel good most of the time, he always feels it's his duty to make those around him laugh, as well as to teach a lesson. That's what people see.

Paul Callus

Date: 1/23/2015 11:35:00 AM

Hi Eileen! Sometimes I meet female friends who I knew years back. Then, they were beautiful, but now that they are older they are even more beautiful. So do not go thinking that age is being unkind, far from it. Your student has perfect eyesight, and so do many of us! Good thing you can't read all that goes through our minds!:) hugs // paul

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/23/2015 11:38:00 AM

Oh Paul....I sure wish I could. I could do with some lovely compliments. This one is a beauty which I accept gladly. :) Thank you, my dear....Hugs

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 1/22/2015 8:29:00 AM

;0). Charmaine made a great suggestion, search out your beauty Eillen, see what we see!

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 8:37:00 AM

:) Oh....isn't that just lovely!!! Thanks, Richard. I'm at the office preparing a final exam for my Grammar and Writing classes. Already gave two exams this morning.....Reading and English Composition I. I have so much to correct, but this lovely post will bring a smile and give me the impetus I need. Hugs to you, my dear. I will indulge myself and read your latest poem....HUGS

Charmaine Chircop

Date: 1/21/2015 7:43:00 PM

Cont. Everyday I try to find at least four beautiful things to say to someone or about someone.I ve read about giving at least for compliments a day years ago in a magazine of positive thinking and i kept doing it.Another thing is that everyday i try to find something good that i did or something beautiful about me..that makes me happy,even when all I see about me is grey..It helps for my mood : ). Eileen..you are a sweet lady anf so your student

Charmaine Chircop
Date: 1/22/2015 6:17:00 PM

Now you made me smile dear ?big hugs

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 3:48:00 AM

One day your daughter will know what a hot, talented, beautiful Mama she has!!! :) Can't wait to hear what she says then. I'm so glad you have taken this telling of affirming things to heart. Four compliments a day...I should adopt that was well. Let me start by saying your poetry has the tender quality of sensuality that is so appealing. I'm sometimes too brash and brazen, you have that softer touch which makes it beautiful...You are a fine poetess. Hugs

Charmaine Chircop

Date: 1/21/2015 7:38:00 PM

Yes Eileen.. Im.calling my two year old girl young lady cause she s toilet training.Today I asked her,what are you and she replied,'a young lady'.Then I asked her and your mama (mom)..,She replied-an old lady : ).I dont blame her,She must see me old compared to her,lol : ). I am a sensitive person,and I love to give sinciere positive compliments,but i love to recieve them too..Eileen what your student said to you is true..You are beautiful inside and out lady.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 3:46:00 AM

Oh dear...You are gorgeous. Your little girl doesn't know better. You made me smile, my dear. Thanks ever so much. I know your heart is true and what you write on my poems is how you feel. I can't tell you how much that means to me. We all love being affirmed, especially in areas where we feel insecure. No matter how many times I'm told I'm pretty...my insecurities get in the way. He was sweet to compliment me and give me a boost. Little things can do so much to bring smiles.

David Meade

Date: 1/21/2015 6:49:00 PM

A wise and wonderful student . . . that in itself is hope for the future!! Much love and light my dear Little One.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 3:49:00 AM

Thank you ever so much, David. He did make me feel good. I do want to lose weight and take better care of my health. I'm not condoning being complacent, but....it is a hard struggle for some. I'm in that group. :( I will try to work on it, but in the meantime, it's good that people can see beauty. I'm glad for your visits, my dear.

Ilene Bauer

Date: 1/21/2015 6:26:00 PM

what a beautiful story! i can see how this lifted your spirits and i'm sure you conveyed this to your student. you're right - it doesn't take much to lift us up or tear us down. sometimes a word or two is enough...

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 3:51:00 AM

I did convey my thanks to him, and will tell him about my post here. We joked for a minute or two. :) I do like to be on friendly terms with my students. They come talk to me in my office now and again. I love teaching. The interaction is great. I hope that I also encourage them to reach for greater heights. It's a give and take situation. Thanks for the visit, my dear. Hugs

Eve Roper

Date: 1/21/2015 4:56:00 PM

Eileen, what a wonderful gift to be given of encouragement, we all should get encouragements like this and it would make for happier, life. Now you know you have gotten confirmation that you’re looking pretty good. Blessings dear friend and hugs Eve

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 3:52:00 AM

Thanks ever so much, Eve. The gift of encouragement is mentioned in the Bible. Barnabas was a Son of Encouragement. Yes, words are powerful and effective. Thanks for bring me joy with yours. Hugs

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 1/21/2015 4:38:00 PM

Beauty does not come in a certain size. I am glad you could see yourself through your student's eyes. He obviously has an eye for beauty.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 4:00:00 AM

Richard, this is one of your sweetest posts. Thank you. You are well aware of my insecurities. Perhaps this would not be a big deal to anyone, but for me....compliments on my beauty always move me. I love knowing I've still "got it". I know it's silly...I know I should be more confident, but...I'm not, and these words really make me happy. Thank you for your post. I will treasure it always. Hugs

Jan Allison

Date: 1/21/2015 4:04:00 PM

I agree with your student Eileen you are a stunner and I can see why your students adore you:-) Hugs my friend:-) Jan xx

Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/22/2015 4:00:00 AM

OH WOW, Jan. A stunner.... :) :) I'm flying high, my dear. Bless you for that. I can never hear it enough. It's a boost to my low self-esteem. Hugs....