Garden of Graces

Growing older is a garden of graces . . .
disgraces, wild goose chases, closed in places.
It is an imperceptible tottering of time on a
conveyer belt, where at the end time drops
into the slipstream and becomes the mobius .

Growing older is wanting to be older when
you are young and younger when you are old.
You wish away the days, never dreaming that
you would give a king’s ransom to have them 
back once again, treasured, appreciated.

In our youth, we squander time, kick it to the curb.
In our older years, we try to tie it to ourselves.
Age sneaks around when we aren’t looking, spreads
its poison pollen and is gone without our seeing.

The business of living distracts us from noticing
until it is too late, when we look into a mirror,
only to behold the ruthless signs smothering us.
It is realizing men no longer turn and whistle.
You have become invisible, crayoned out until
some young man says, “Grandma, the time?”

Growing older is smelling of Icy Hot instead of
Beautiful by Estee Lauder, seeing people sniff.
It is keeping L`Oreal in business long past the time
you want to stop, but can’t bear those gray hairs
that are the mute testimony to the inexorable decay

Growing older is breaking the shackles of propriety
Wearing that purple, and at least four sweaters.
It is joyously realizing you don’t care a fig what
people think or say about you or anything else.
You can laugh at the absurdity of fashion, style.
It is the delicious capability to say anything
you want, vent your opinions, disagree.
You say the most outrageous things freely,
and are forgiven, because you are getting
more than a little fey and just a little dotty.
And, oh, growing old is the sweetest blessing,
for you no longer are frozen in fear at death
and it's coming soon, for your years have
worn you out and everything changes so much
there is scarcely anything left of your world

What does it matter what god you worshipped
This earth has been hell enough for an eternity
and if there be heaven, it is icing on the cake
Copyright © | Year Posted 2018

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Gutmacher Avatar
November 11, 2019 at 7:55 AM
Sherry: nicely done and gently put together. Enjoyed reading it.
De Beaulieu Avatar
December 6, 2018 at 1:17 PM
Hello Sherry, All thes words are true. I have always been young at heart,and always will be. have a nice day my friend.
B. Avatar
November 18, 2018 at 8:29 AM
I really enjoyed this, Sherry.. This poem contains such truth and clarity.. Wonderful!! Blessings to you!
West Avatar
November 17, 2018 at 5:26 AM
That is a profound truth that has been exposed in such a way, that it seems to have been written from beyond a third person perspective. Well done!
Marcum Wong Avatar
November 16, 2018 at 1:43 PM
I can't believe this brilliant poem has no comments Sherry. It carries the reader down life's path from carefree days of youth to inescapable aging that makes it impossible to ignore with aching limbs and body, depending on choices of the kind of work that punished your body into accepting what it can no longer accomplish. Contd.
Marcum Wong Avatar
November 16, 2018 at 1:43 PM
You describe it all with a knowing that is so clear to anyone who has lived long and endured. This piece is so excellent that I am Faving it. I hope others will get to read this wonderful poem as it shines a bright light on your talent. Welcome to Poetry Soup. We are blessed to have you join us! Aloha, Connie
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