Funeral Or No Funeral

My uncle is dead. Funeral or no funeral? He was a blue baby; born dead. Oxygen did not get to his brain in time. The doctor worked on him too long. He had multiple mental, social and emotional challenges. He was sweet talked into a very expensive pre-paid funeral by a cagey greedy funeral director with no morals. He signed a contract. The family could not get the contract annulled. I have not seen this uncle for fifty years. He was in a group home for most of that time. Four people are attending. I will not make the fifth. I loathe the funeral home director. Not relishing spending, one second trying to exchange niceties. Update His funeral was not attended by four. Only two showed up. That is two more people than he would allow to visit. The last few years of life he was afraid of people as well as electricity, lightning, thunder, electrical cords, knives, brooms, and sixty other things. Sadly the two who showed were not speaking. One being a non-vaxed non-masked niece. The other being a masked niece wearing a mask. They both telephoned me to complain about the other. I truly am glad I did not attend.