Cruel To Be Kind

How do you look into those eyes
then sternly answer “No!”
And at the time not realize
you saved a mortal blow.

When you are relied upon,
protection may seem hard.
If you give a melting moment, 
be careful when you drop your guard.

For there are some you need to guide,
and give protection from their mind.
Sometimes it pays to be cruel, 
in this world to be kind.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2022

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Maverick Avatar
March 13, 2022 at 3:41 AM
Well I must say there are times this Is, going To be so; so right.'
Laurie Avatar
March 24, 2022 at 4:59 PM
Hello Joe ... too right Joe. As much as it hurts, it is for the greater good - thank you Joe - Lindsay
Buehler Avatar
March 11, 2022 at 9:49 PM
Love is saying no, when you'd rather say yes. Your poem imparts its wisdom very well, Lindsay. Blessings, Evelyn
Laurie Avatar
March 24, 2022 at 4:53 PM
Hello Evelyn ... yes Evelyn, sometimes it does seem harsh but essential - thank you Evelyn - Lindsay
Delaney Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 4:50 AM
How do I explain this to my little dog who asks for treats all day long…….when I am eating anything ……I just so no…it’s not for little dogs. Cheers,SuZ
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:27 PM
Hello Suzanne ... we can teach dogs many things, but when it comes to food, they stare us down until we give in on many occasions - thank you Suzanne - Lindsay
Proxenos Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 1:14 AM
We have to be strict with teenagers, my son was loving and got around me. I was a single mom up To when Elias came into our lives Elias , but my son always respected and listened to his advice. I remember our dog snarled when Elias tried to take his bone, although Plato was loving and well trained he got a clout, was rewarded with a bigger bone and a romp on the lawn. Been cruel to be kind is practiced by those who think though a situation and not by those that don't understand Hugs/Jenn
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:23 PM
Hello Jennifer ... a fine comment indeed. Early discipline mostly leads to a lifetime of respect - thanks again Jennifer - Lindsay
Kiser Avatar
February 8, 2022 at 12:34 PM
So true, well penned.
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:20 PM
Hello M.L. ... thank you once again M.L. - Lindsay
Messina Avatar
February 6, 2022 at 1:34 AM
Wisely written, Lindsay. Sometimes one needs to put their foot down and just say "NO" Children need to be taught, addicts need to be controlled, and Lord some people just need to be told right from wrong. Have a nice Sunday. Charlie
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:19 PM
Hello Charles ... I cannot agree more with your comment Charles. We all needed proper guidance in our young days - Lindsay
George Avatar
February 5, 2022 at 7:56 PM
Hi Lindsay....This is so true especially with children . As parents we have a moral obligation to guide them. Sometimes we have to say a stern"NO". Even if it hurts them, it is done with concern and later they will know. Very analytically expressed,
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:14 PM
Hello Valsa ... a really factual comment indeed. Without some discipline how would a child ever learn to respect - thank you Valsa - Lindsay
Marcum Wong Avatar
February 5, 2022 at 3:45 PM
I agree. As a grandparent I have to say no a lot. But I do it with kindness. Very astute! Blessings xxoo
Laurie Avatar
February 14, 2022 at 2:10 PM
Hello Connie ... unfortunately some discipline early in life is the best grounding for showing respect later on - thank you Connie - Lindsay
Wolf Avatar
February 3, 2022 at 6:44 PM
Very profound thought, Lindsay. So true: What looks to be cruelty at a glance may just be the greatness Kindness of all. Great write, friend. ~ Gershon
Laurie Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 9:52 PM
Hello Gershon ... in our situation your comment is exactly the case - thanks again Gershon - Lindsay
Macfarlane Avatar
February 3, 2022 at 2:01 PM
Wise truthful words. Terrific write. Now have the song stuck in my head, lol. Big hugs
Laurie Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 9:50 PM
Hello Cecilia ... it seemed cruel to pen our dog Missy when we went out. If we did, she would have lived much longer - pleased you enjoyed this poem Cecilia - Lindsay
Babcock Avatar
February 2, 2022 at 9:07 AM
Yes sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind in this world. Nicely written. Just getting over the virus and it took longer than I thought. Wipes you out for sure. Take care and hope all is well your way. love phyl
Laurie Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 9:46 PM
Hello Phyllis ... we both tested positive for this pest, but I had no symptoms at all. All good now though. It's a cruel world that could do with a lot more kindness - thanks Phyllis - Lindsay
Leffanta Avatar
February 1, 2022 at 10:29 AM
Aye, sad but true! Aloha!
Laurie Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 9:42 PM
Hello Rico ... certainly a necessity in many cases - thanks again Rico - Lindsay
Cunningham Avatar
February 1, 2022 at 7:14 AM
So true Lindsay. Tom
Laurie Avatar
February 13, 2022 at 9:40 PM
There you go Tom, I can write the truth - sometimes. Thanks again Tom - Lindsay
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