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When we spend our time looking at what our neighbor has instead of looking at all we have of our own, it takes all the enjoyment out of our life; we are never satisfied. But life is 100 times more enjoyable if we count our own blessings instead of everyone else's. Jealousy only hurts the one who is jealous.

Counting My Neighbor's Blessings

I was counting my neighbor's blessings,
And paying no mind to my own;
For it seemed to me the harder I worked,
The more my neighbor's had grown.

The more I looked at his blessings,
The smaller my own seemed to be.
Everything seemed to be handed to him,
While nothing came free for me.

He had a fine house, he had a fine car,
His whole life seemed to be perfect.
While my house is okay and my job pays enough,
His seemed to be more select.

I prayed and I said, Why him and not me.
Why does he seem so blessed?
God answered and said, What's his is his, what's yours is yours,
Don't rail and beat your chest.

Count your own blessings and not those of others.
Don't envy what isn't yours.
Be satisfied with what you've got.
Be happy instead for your brother.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2023

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Proxenos Avatar
September 25, 2023 at 7:50 AM
Hi my dear friend Judy, we had a very big house which we inherited from my parents, everyone used our house as a guide to enter this small town as we were on a corner. When property prices went down, it was a world wide problem, but we wanted to come nearer to Johannesburg where our son and his family live, so we sold and got half of what it was worth. Now we have bought the cutest cottage, small ,with a lovely garden, it is easily one third in size of our previous home, but we feel much happier where we are, more down to earth. So what I am really saying I agree with your last two lines, bought smaller because that is all we need. Love your poem my friend. Hugs, blessings Jen.
Dietrich Avatar
August 29, 2023 at 6:35 AM
That is true when we are young and starting out I supipose. Right now the only thing I envy are people that live without pain. I'd give anything to regain the health that Big Pharma stole from me. very nice poem. Judy
Ball Avatar
August 29, 2023 at 1:00 PM
I would love to hear you say you spent the day without pain too My Dear. Thanks bunches . God Bless, JB
Bowring Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 9:28 AM
This is such a beautiful poem Judy full of such wisdom. We don’t count our own blessings enough- that’s quite true. The last stanza is so profound. A great reminder. I loved it! Thank you for sharing. Blessings to you.
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 11:03 PM
Thank you so much Christina. God Bless, JB
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August 26, 2023 at 12:21 PM
Nice pen Judy, with good rhyme and flow and fine imagery. Hope you have a great weekend, blessings always,Gordon
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:52 PM
Thank you so much Gordon. God Bless, JB
Stark Avatar
August 23, 2023 at 11:22 PM
Hahaha That's a nice one
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:50 PM
Thank you so much Curie. God Bless, JB
Downing  Avatar
August 22, 2023 at 6:26 PM
I can learn from this, Judy. Thank you for sharing :)
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:43 PM
Thank you so much Akkina. God Bless, JB
Kiser Avatar
August 22, 2023 at 12:35 PM
Sage advice, we often tend to overlook our own blessings; when we realize them, we see how rich we really are.
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:35 PM
Right you are my friend. Thanks bunches. God Bless, JB
Maverick Avatar
August 21, 2023 at 11:19 PM
Amen Judy, so much truth here.' I trust you Are better now.?
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:28 PM
Thank you so much Joe. Still in physio but got a real compliment both from my doctor and my physio therapist. They both said I am a very strong woman and that I'm healing nicely. Thanks for asking. God Blss, JB
Legros Kelley Avatar
August 18, 2023 at 4:55 PM
What a perfectly wonderful poem Judy! A fave!
Ball Avatar
August 28, 2023 at 10:23 PM
Thank you so much BJ. God Bless, JB
Goldsmith Avatar
August 17, 2023 at 10:15 AM
A wonderful/true write. Love your line, "Jealousy only hurts the one who is jealous." I have seen this many times. Have a great day.............
De Beaulieu Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 3:25 PM
Hello Judy Ball, oh this is good advise. I am Enjoy your evening my friend. making this my favourite. Enjoy your evening my friend. Hugs. /Darlene\
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August 17, 2023 at 5:00 AM
Hello Judy you are welcome. Enjoy your day . Hugs. /Darlene\
Ball Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 4:05 PM
Thank you so much Darlene. God Bless, JB
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August 16, 2023 at 1:55 PM
I can so relate to this, Judy! God is constantly reminding me to be thankful for what I have and not coveting other's blessings! This poem is a great reminder for me! Thank you for sharing! Blessings, Kim M
Ball Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 4:00 PM
Thank you so much Kim. God Bless, JB
Pandit Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 1:11 PM
I like the profound message of your poem, Judy. Divine words to live by.
Ball Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 3:55 PM
Thank you so much Vijay. God Bless, JB
Poet Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 12:35 PM
Judy, your use of vivid imagery is commendable. Your writing exhibits a high level of skill, my friend. Your advice to express gratitude for our possessions while also acknowledging the abundance of others is truly insightful.
Ball Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 3:51 PM
Thank you so much Lasaad for your kind words. God Bless, JB
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August 16, 2023 at 11:43 AM
Great advice Judy, we should be grateful for what we have and if others have more than us then good luck to them. Tom
Ball Avatar
August 16, 2023 at 11:50 AM
Thank you so much Tom. God Bless, JB
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