Changing Clothes

Girls could not wear pants to school
When I was just a kid
And on our feet were shoes, not sneakers;
That’s just what we did.

We got dressed up on holidays
Or specialized events
Like Broadway shows or graduations;
There were no dissents.

Grown-ups also went to work
In dresses, suits and ties.
Decorum was the rule of thumb then,
Meant to civilize.

We’ve come a long way from those years.
Now there are no set rules
And most would claim they like this freedom;
Dress codes are for fools.

Yet there are times I look around
At people at their jobs
And what I see is the result;
So many look like slobs.

I wouldn’t want restrictions like
The ones we used to know,
But it bothers me that sloppiness
Is now the status quo.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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Rigoler Avatar
January 15, 2026 at 8:00 PM
Ilene, it's worse in hospitals. Nurses wear very casual clothes, look nothing like professionals of years ago! Even my young doctor doesn't wear a white smock and looks more like he's still in college! So much in the way of decorum has changed! One nurse at the hospital (and she's not young) has tattoos all over her body and makes no effort to conceal them!. Maurice
Wolf Avatar
December 24, 2025 at 8:23 PM
It's an all-or-nothing world. Once you drop the standard, what's to stop it from dropping out of sight altogether? ~ Married to a Jar of Cold Cream
Alhemaidy Avatar
December 21, 2025 at 1:21 PM
Agreed :-)
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