Some folks seem to think as long as THEY are satisfied EVERYONE should be. NOT SO. Sometimes other family members have wants and needs that should be considered too. Maybe those wants and needs differ from yours but we have to stop and think about what's fair. Don't make your mate live your whole life where that person is not happy. Don't go through life thinking that doing something to make someone else happy takes something away from you. Don't think that giving in a little now and then is going to destroy your self worth or wreck your life. NOT CONSIDERING EVERYONE CONCERNED IS GOING TO DO THAT.