Boundaries

You can love a person
by not losing yourself;
And I have learnt it recently 
after losing myself several times 
for that one person I loved,
I still love, will love:
Rajeev, my second one,
after my first love died.
We went through separation several times,
life tested us, and we abandoned each other a thousand miles
metaphorically and physically too
and the mental distance continued.
Yet life brings us together again to check
maybe what's the maturity streak!
Have we learnt to love by keeping the boundaries too,
Or is it just another test and subscription renew?
This time I will not fail in this test,
I will choose myself first 
and then will do the rest for my love's sake.

Yes, you can love someone 
and still can't lose you!
You are the brave, the great, the beautiful,
you are always the first lover of you.
You can love someone, 
but if they unlove, unfriend or disdain,
you should never afford to lose you.
Almighty always wants you to sustain 
with the beautiful soul you are being given,
and should not lose yourself by anyone's disdain.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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