Ambiguous Loss

Ambiguous Loss**
(a paradox of presence and absence )
(coined by researcher educationist Pauline Boss)


You disappeared.. without a last goodbye   
a story ends incomplete, holding on to hope
beneath frozen tears, an ambiguous sigh
an uncertain mystery, tell me how to cope.

a story ends incomplete , holding on to hope 
you are dead or still alive, an unresolved grief
an uncertain mystery, tell me how to cope.
ruminating worried thoughts , never in relief 

you are dead or still alive, an unresolved grief
a persistent sorrow, where have you gone?
ruminating worried thoughts , never in relief 
in cold storage you live, how do I move on ?

a persistent sorrow, where have you gone?
beneath frozen tears, an ambiguous sigh
in cold storage you live, how do I move on?
You disappeared... without a last goodbye.





**Ambiguous loss is a loss that occurs without closure or clear understanding.This kind of loss leaves a person searching for answers, and thus complicates and delays the process of grieving. (Wikipedia ).It is prominent when a loved one goes missing , soldiers lost in action , the family live in continual loss difficult to reconcile .
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15th February 2020
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Contest Name	PANTOUMT
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Sands Avatar
February 29, 2020 at 5:34 PM
Congratulations for your great top win :)
Kauffman Avatar
February 29, 2020 at 3:40 PM
Congratulations Debjanie on your top win! Ambiguous - a most uncomfortable place - the greatest guesswork of the mind and heart. Very nice write.
Rodrigues Avatar
February 28, 2020 at 4:18 AM
Being caught in limbo or parenthesis as some say. Suffering without resolve. Well done with this issue. Congratulations on your top placement, Debjani!
Allison Avatar
February 27, 2020 at 9:06 PM
such a heartbreaking poem - not having the answers or any type of closure must be so hard to bear - I applaud you for writing on such a difficult subject that sadly some will be able to relate to on a personal level. a well deserved win:-) hugs Jan xx
Roper Avatar
February 27, 2020 at 2:49 PM
This is wonderful verse , and I am tickled that you used the Rhyme pattern. Congratulations on your awesome win. Hugs Eve
Johnson Avatar
February 27, 2020 at 9:03 AM
Congrats Debjani. This was really good and speaks to the heart of many people. Blessings.
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