A Mile In Her Shoes

A mile in her shoes
You look at her and wonder
and simply do not at all understand
You would think she would leave him
Before things really get out of hand.

She thinks we don’t notice
The days she shows up newly bruised
Some of us look down on her at times
Because she allows herself to be abused.

I cannot look down upon her
Because I have walked in her shoes
You cannot know the pain she has
Or her shame she has for being used 
 
She has children she must think of
And bills that need to be paid
Food for the table to be purchased
There are so many reasons she’s stayed

Her dreams and life have shattered
And hope died so long ago
Love has a different meaning to her
Something most of us will never know
 
So do not harshly judge her
She is aware of your opinions and views
And you should never ever judge her
Unless you have walked a mile in her shoes
Copyright © | Year Posted 2014

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Posey Avatar
August 15, 2014 at 6:21 PM
Connie, remember I told you this one sparked some inspiration to write... I finally put it all together..... Check out "Walk With Me".....Thanks for the seed....... Love ya...... Jake
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July 14, 2014 at 6:40 PM
So true. Many times they say "why don't they just leave," but its just not that easy. ~ Samantha
Moore Avatar
July 14, 2014 at 7:37 PM
Yes you are so right. you sound like you have lived it too as I have. It has been many years but somehow you never forget but you can see the signs in other women who are still living it and it makes for a sadness in the soul. Thanks for your input Samantha. It is appreciated Connie
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April 23, 2014 at 6:39 AM
Amazing, fantastic, brilliant....I can't think of enough words to describe this piece. Congrats on your win.
Moore Avatar
April 23, 2014 at 10:07 AM
Wow, thank you so much for your fantastic review!! Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 10:06 PM
Congrats Connie.....Seren
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 10:08 PM
Thank you Seren Appreciate you! Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 6:35 PM
Hi Connie, Loved how you extracted this one away. Congratulations, this is a great win, for such a painful and realistic theme, when writing about, this topic. In which phantom's around Abused Women. Have a nice day.... ~LINDA
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 6:43 PM
Thank you so much Linda. I always appreciate your input. Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 4:36 PM
Such a fabulous brave write Connie and so pleased to see you yourself walk out of such a horrid life. Hugs Jan
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April 21, 2014 at 4:41 PM
I also got placed in the contest - I wrote not from personal experience but things i have read and someone I worked with was a victim. Hugs Jan x
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 4:38 PM
Thank you so much Jan. It was a horrid life and I thank God every day that I did get out. I so appreciate your words. Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 3:54 PM
Thank you for entering the contest, Connie and congratulations on your placement. You really hit the theme on the head with this one Connie! Nice flow and good rhyme. Easy to read and understand. I love the line: "Love has a different meaning to her" - that is so true. And, I like the way you notice, "She is aware of your opinions and views". Nicely done. Joe
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 3:58 PM
Thank you so much Joe. I lived it for a while but managed to get out. Life is good after all!! Thank you again Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 12:46 PM
Connie, this is so real to read. I put this in my favorites. Congratulations on your win... Verlena
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 12:47 PM
Thank You Verlena!! I didn't know I won yet! thank you so much Connie
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March 27, 2014 at 11:43 PM
Connie; What a beautiful poem you have written. I just loved it. There are so many women that live like this all for different reasons. As you say - we should not judge. We have not walked a mile in their shoes. This is very good for the contest. Thanks for sharing... Lucilla
Moore Avatar
March 27, 2014 at 11:45 PM
Thank you Lucilla. You are so right and I lived it myself for a number of years. It is a hard place to be. Connie
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March 23, 2014 at 7:12 PM
Connie, thanks for the comments on my work. This entry really struck home. You noticed that I haven't posted lately. Well, I have been in rehab for a hip replacement and haven't had a lot of inspiration. I will be posting again soon as I ironically, had some great ideas while in rehab. This poem reminded me of one thought I'm working on. "I may not have walked a mile in your shoes, but I've worn out a few of my own.".. I send kudos on your work.. Keep posting and I'll see ya later. Luv Ya,Jake
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March 23, 2014 at 8:11 PM
I am so glad to hear from you. I am glad also you are getting better. Wow a hip replacement . That is major stuff Jake. I am a nurse so know what you went through. I would like to see the one you are working on when you get it done. And thank you for your nice comment. I have missed that. Connie
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March 20, 2014 at 2:59 PM
Connie... this is the winner piece of all !!! ..you have perfectly described what one abused woman has gone through...awesome poem dear! ..I will not wish you luck, instead let me say this; CONGRATULATIONS!!... :'))
Moore Avatar
April 21, 2014 at 11:20 PM
Wow! Aiyah you are so sweet and thank you so much for the encouragement. Connie
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April 21, 2014 at 1:18 PM
I'm adding you to my favorite poet... and treasure your poem in my shelf.. :O) more power and keep penning ...you're an inspiration.. thanks a lot!! ^_^
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April 21, 2014 at 1:16 PM
on my way again.. to send my CONGRATULATIONS to you, Connie!!! :O))
Moore Avatar
March 20, 2014 at 3:05 PM
thank you so much for your kind words. life is very hard at times. not everyone understands Connie
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