13 Attributes of Rachamim Applied
1.Tolerate other peoples’ weaknesses
2.Give others enough time to change
3.Reach out to others who regret their mistakes, & help them remove the damage they created
4.Rejoice with others & suffer with their suffering
5.Soften your anger & help other people to change
6.Do not punish others or take revenge
7.Grow closer to someone who is sorry
8.Do not allow positive actions, no matter how small, to be canceled out by negative actions, no matter how large
9.Stand by others who are suffering, even though they brought the suffering on themselves
10. Do the Right Thing
11. Go beyond what others’ deserve
12. Even if someone does evil, find even a small place in your heart for themselves
13. We do not know what causes another person to do evil. Focus on where a person came from, where they are going, have some compassion!