Love Song
My own dear love, he is strong and bold
And he cares not what comes after.
His words ring sweet as a chime of gold,
And his eyes are lit with laughter.
He is jubilant as a flag unfurled—
Oh, a girl, she’d not forget him.
My own dear love, he is all my world,—
And I wish I’d never met him.
My love, he’s mad, and my love, he’s fleet,
And a wild young wood-thing bore him!
The ways are fair to his roaming feet,
And the skies are sunlit for him.
As sharply sweet to my heart he seems
As the fragrance of acacia.
My own dear love, he is all my dreams,—
And I wish he were in Asia.
Literary Analysis
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Summary
Dorothy Parker presents a voice that sounds at first like a delighted declaration of devotion, but the poem quickly reveals itself as a sharp little reversal. The beloved is described in language of brightness, youth, vigor, and charm, yet each loving compliment turns toward a private complaint. The repeated structure builds a pattern of praise that keeps collapsing into regret, so the poem feels both playful and cutting.
The central tension lies in the gap between romantic idealization and emotional reality. The woman speaking seems to know exactly what attracts her to this man-his energy, beauty, freedom, and irresistible brightness-but those same qualities make him impossible to hold. By the end, her wish that he were far away is comic on the surface and painful underneath, capturing the experience of loving someone who remains thrilling precisely because he cannot be possessed.
Theme
- Unattainable love - The beloved is admired for his vitality and charm, but the poem makes clear that he is not emotionally available in any comforting or lasting way.
- Irony in romance - Each affectionate description is undercut by the final line of the stanza, turning the poem into a witty refusal of sentimental love language.
- Freedom versus commitment - The man is associated with motion, youth, and roaming, while the woman's perspective implies the cost of loving someone who will not stay still.
- Self-aware disappointment - The repeated wish to undo the relationship suggests not naïve heartbreak but a clear-eyed understanding of what the romance has become.
- Attraction to brilliance - The beloved's beauty and energy are undeniable, and the poem acknowledges how those qualities can overpower judgment even when they lead to pain.
Literary Devices
- Repetition - The repeated opening phrase and the recurring final declaration create a song-like structure while emphasizing the speaker's conflicted emotions.
- Irony - The poem praises the beloved in glowing terms only to end with wishes that he were never met or were far away, reversing the expected direction of a love lyric.
- Simile - Comparisons such as the voice that rings like a chime and the sweet scent of flowers heighten the beloved's appeal while keeping the language vivid and musical.
- Metaphor - Describing the man as the speaker's whole world or as a wild young creature turns emotional attachment into a set of striking images.
- Alliteration - Repeated consonant sounds give the poem a quick, polished musicality that suits its flirtatious yet bitter tone.
- Contrast - The poem continually sets warmth against regret, motion against stability, and admiration against rejection, sharpening the emotional complexity.
Symbolism
- Chime of gold - This image suggests beauty, value, and a bright, ringing allure that makes the beloved seem precious and enchanting.
- Flag unfurled - The image evokes public display, energy, and triumph, symbolizing the beloved's open, untamed vitality.
- Wild young wood-thing - This figure suggests nature, instinct, and lack of restraint, symbolizing a lover who cannot be domesticated.
- Asia - The distant place functions as a symbol of removal and emotional exile, a wish for separation rather than reunion.
- Acacia - The flower image suggests sweetness and delicacy, reinforcing the beloved's physical appeal even as the speaker resists it.
Tone
Parker's tone is wry, teasing, and unsentimental, with a comic sharpness that keeps the poem from sinking into outright sorrow. The mood for the reader is more complicated: the polished, lyrical phrasing creates a light, almost playful surface, but the closing wishes of distance and regret give the poem an edge of bitterness and exhaustion.
Historical Context
Dorothy Parker is closely associated with early twentieth-century American wit, especially the urbane, conversational style that often masks emotional pain with elegance and humor. Her poetry frequently reflects modern urban sensibilities: romantic disappointment is treated not with grand tragic language but with precision, irony, and verbal control.
The poem also fits a broader modern literary tendency to question inherited love-poem conventions. Instead of presenting devotion as pure fulfillment, it exposes the instability behind attraction and the loneliness that can survive inside a seemingly lively romance.
Similar Poems
- False Love - William Shakespeare
- I Knew A Woman - Theodore Roethke
- A Birthday - Christina Rossetti
- When You Are Old - W. B. Yeats
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