With Myself and Me

The number of my Destiny is 7.
Solitary Seven it is sometimes called.
My birth path number 5 is fun and sociable,
but honestly, I love to be alone!
Alone I read my books,
alone I write my poems,
and alone I watch the movies I adore.

I love the company of family and friends,
but since my siblings all live far from me
and my own two kids are off and on their own,
and since my friends are mostly all online,
and the people that surround me at my workplace and at church
are mere acquaintances, busy with their own families,
it's by myself I usually can be found.

It's like that time I spent on my first cruise 
paid for by my husband's mother to accompany her grown daughter, 
a person with whom I share no common interests.
Instead of going with me to attend the talent shows,
the many ship activities like games and competitions
or enjoying karaoke, she was often off alone herself!
Meanwhile I just blended in with all the crowd -
laughing with the members of the cruise,
watching them all dance 
(I must admit I longed to have a partner then),
but all in all, I much enjoyed it all even though I mostly was alone.

I have no problem seeing movies by myself. 
At matinees I'm sometimes the only person there.
I put my feet up; no one's there to care!
Frugal, I rarely go out to eat. 
My husband is so quiet, the few times we eat out,
it would not make much difference 
whether he was there with me or not!
I have no friends with whom I go to classes at the gym,
but I am there to exercise, not socialize.
I'm content to have just the right amount of social interaction
every morning when I'm teaching at the school.

Yes, I am a solitary sort. It's always been this way.
In my childhood, alone I read upon my bed 
while downstairs my siblings liked to play. 
At times I joined in with them. In school I cherished friends
and hung out very often with my pals,
but in the end. . . . 
I find enjoyment in many things,
and many of the things I most enjoy 
I do quite comfortably
with myself and me!


For PD's the a poem' about you... it can be an ode' a self ballad, any poem about you.. THE POETPoetry Contest
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Taylor Avatar
February 28, 2013 at 6:10 PM
Congrats, Andrea. Outstanding. Well done. Nice going. hugs, Ralph
Jones Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 4:53 PM
Congratulations!!!!!
Tams The Golden Girl Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 10:52 AM
Many congratulations on yet another winning spot Andy, what a solitary person you are, that's why you are so clever xx
Bauer Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 4:48 AM
andrea - i feel like i've learned so much about you in this poem and i love the way you've described yourself. i think it's important to enjoy being alone and in your poem, you've made it sound like the best way to be. congrats on your win!
Gildersleeve Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 4:21 AM
Andrea beautifully written. I understand where your coming from. I love being by myself, doing things that I enjoy. The best friend sometimes is yourself. Enjoy the friends you have, but really enjoy your own self first. Congrats on your win. Be true to yourself always.
Sister Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 3:33 AM
I get this, sometimes being by yourself is the best company. Congrats! Jennifer
Williams Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 1:05 AM
Andrea congrats on your win, love these numerology ones...David
Nair Avatar
February 27, 2013 at 12:54 AM
You are the kind of person i thought you are. Congrats..Gwen i think has again gone into hiding, hope she will get in touch!! Jag
May Avatar
February 26, 2013 at 9:02 PM
very nicely written Andrea...congrats on your win...I am sur you have many kindred spirits here ...love
A   Avatar
February 26, 2013 at 8:41 PM
Andrea, your poem is perfect..... CONGRATULATIONS, with this awesome poem about YOU :-) LINDA
Johnson Avatar
April 28, 2011 at 4:05 PM
that'll be 100 dollars please. that's my hourly rate for therapy. :)
Fillmore Avatar
March 15, 2011 at 2:54 PM
I too enjoy the solitude, need to be to write I think...especially relate to this piece! Good luck on contest! Thanks for the comments on Butterflies Travel, Andrea! They are such beautiful creatures, colourful...yes they are insects:)
Austin Avatar
March 9, 2011 at 9:53 AM
Writers, artists and musicians probably all enjoy solitude the most part of the day. I think they must be this way to be good at their profession. Hey! That be why you be so good at your writing. Love, Dave
Austin Avatar
March 9, 2011 at 9:50 AM
Love this write because I must also be a 7. I like company about10% of the time. The rest of the time I live in my imagination. I am writing up a short novel about Niccolo Paganini for internet publication. Paganini - as a child - had an imaginary playmate. I also, as a child, had an imaginary playmate, quite real to me at the time. LOve, Dave
Kapoor Avatar
March 9, 2011 at 8:29 AM
Unique and interesting write my friend very beautifully sketched. Congrats on your win in the contest. You have asked about the theme of my Poem 'When the Earth was in danger'. The characters of this story are from the Hindu mythology, but the story is entirely my own. Of course this incident took place but it was in a little different way. Hope you have enjoyed it so far and would find interesting in the last 2-3 remaining parts. Love and best wishes...Ravindra
Brown Avatar
March 8, 2011 at 10:59 AM
Now we know!!! Congratulations on your fine win in Francine's contest Andrea. Love, Carol
Sweetheart Avatar
March 8, 2011 at 5:07 AM
Congrats Andrea on your HM in Francine's contest.. awesome and interesting write and entry my friend.. enjoy your special honor with lots of luv...
Taylor Avatar
March 7, 2011 at 7:04 PM
Congrats on a well written well deserved win, Andrea. Nice going. xxxRalph
Villarosa Avatar
March 7, 2011 at 5:41 PM
Very respectful and honest write, Andrea. Good luck to you on this contest. Appreciate your kind comment to my poem. (^_^) Noel.
Roberts Avatar
March 7, 2011 at 5:40 PM
congrats on your HM in my contest Andrea with this insight into you, much enjoyed
Babcock Avatar
March 6, 2011 at 2:34 PM
It is not often that I like to be alone. I always seem to be on the go but even on the go I like to be by myself for I feel someone else will slow me down. I do not like to be in one place to long and always on the move. I get restless. Now as I age I do like time to sit and write . I like this honest, sincere write that comes from you heart Andrea. Good luck in the contest. love phyl
Neels Avatar
March 6, 2011 at 12:03 PM
It is quite a joy if one is content when you are on your own Andrea.. lovely write and good luck for the contest :) love Wilma
Greenlee Avatar
March 6, 2011 at 8:52 AM
I love this.So real and heartfelt.Good luck to you on the contest.sincerely,Kacey
Sweetheart Avatar
March 6, 2011 at 8:38 AM
Unique and cleverly written Andrea.. awesome entry for Francine and now everyone knows how astute u are in thes facets of mystery luv.. great entry good luck my friend so sweet..
Hickman Avatar
March 5, 2011 at 11:53 PM
truly a very much interesting write that you have penned about yourself,,I now know so much more about you,,I would have never expected you to feel this way about yourself,,you seem like a very out going person who would have so many dear friends,that would enjoy being around you all the time,,anyway all the best in the contest,,and Thank you for all the words that you have left behind after reading mine,,Blessings..Cecil
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