When Do You Let Go

SIDENOTE?~~~what if you keep letting them go (cause that's what they say they want, freedom) but they always come back but never to stay long? When do you really let go,? when their mouth says it but their action confuse you,? or when your spirit or heart tells you too? And is it right to try and clip the wings of a free bird to keep them grounded in reality and safe (no I have learned so far)? Is that true love, to risk it all to save your soulmate from losing the greatest kind of love, the unconditional, true, spirit deep, devotion and commitment kind? The BIGGEST question is will I ever really find the the right answer????