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The Worst Caregiver in the World

I watched my sister fading away. She did as she was told Day after miserable day. Do this, don't do that, It's bad for you, good for you, Mustn't get fat. Could Nurse Ratched not see The harm that she caused? The pain she inflicted Gave me pause. Play by the rules, Sound advice for some fools, But not for this one. I make my own laws, Simply because I have no wish To live forever.

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Gary Radice

Date: 6/2/2025 9:53:00 AM

There’s a simple mantra that all care givers should abide by and that’s treat others how you would like to be treated yourself. I’m sure the care giver in your poem failed that marker. When it comes to missing someone close it’s something we learn to cope with but never forget. A poignant write Ellen. Cheers - Gary

Ellen Gwaltney Bales
Date: 6/3/2025 1:15:00 PM

Thank you so much, Gary. I appreciate it!

Ilene Bauer

Date: 4/28/2025 4:04:00 PM

you've described this very well, ellen. it's a sad situation when caregivers do the opposite of giving care. sorry your sister had to go through that...

Ellen Gwaltney Bales
Date: 4/28/2025 6:44:00 PM

Thank you, Ilene!

Deb M

Date: 4/28/2025 3:21:00 PM

Hi Ellen....l am so sorry you lost your sister recently....l know that pain. I am also sorry she suffered. I hope you are OK Ellen. Take care...Debx

Ellen Gwaltney Bales
Date: 4/28/2025 6:44:00 PM

Oh, yes, Deb, I'm okay. I didn't lose my sister recently (2016) but it still stings and I still miss her every day. And unfortunately I still have some resentment for the caregiver. Hopefully writing this poem will help me to deal with it. Thanks so much for your comments and your concern.