The Parenting Puzzle

Wrestling with the best way to raise kids 
Oscillating between being a helicopter parent 
Or letting them find their own way 
The middle road sometimes not apparent 

We all brandish our own brand of baggage 
Coloring our view of how the world looks to us 
Don’t want to fill their backpacks with our fears
Before they even get on the school bus 

Still sharpening my pencil as I ponder
Lately been thinking less is more 
Maybe my job is to encourage curiosity 
While providing them a safe vessel to explore 

Let them make their own decisions 
Ascertaining independently what to see 
The world needs our kids to be who they are 
Not who we want them to be
Copyright © | Year Posted 2022

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Rodrigues Avatar
August 6, 2026 at 10:38 AM
How curious each set of parents given the opportunity to raise their family, to choose just how they want to and some see through the fog wanting to do the best thing. Enjoyed!
Millan-Acosta Avatar
December 21, 2022 at 8:07 AM
Learn from your kids too, they know. I love all your poems
Kendrick Avatar
December 21, 2022 at 3:02 AM
Congratulations on this winner in Brian's contest. Way to go. Say yes as many times as you can then say no when it is an important issue and mean no. You could be wrong, but you are doing your best. In all things and ways say love in action. Sara
Oleary Avatar
December 27, 2022 at 7:13 AM
Thanks and well put for your comment
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