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The Great Paradox of Being

("Halves of a Whole", 2019, original encaustic)

The Great Paradox of Being

The great paradox of being 
is simple really.
It’s that no matter how confident we are
in our own experience and values,
that can all be thrown into question
by our experience of others.
Why is it we let other’s reactions and judgments
weaken our resolve, and confidence in being who we are,
the only thing we ever really know,
the only thing we should never really doubt?

The great paradox of being
is the reality of being a social animal,
individually grounded
but socially dependent
in need of acceptance and validation
warmth and nourishment
knowing in our bones
from hard knocks and harsh words
that no matter how strong
we can’t do it alone.

The great paradox of being
is simply being both
one and many. 

(11/17/23)

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David Fisher November 17, 2023 at 4:42 PM Enjoyed this well thought out poem, James. It makes one think, reflect. Sometimes if I have the courage, I don't think of what other's may think; I'd rather hear their opinions. James Moore November 17, 2023 at 4:49 PM Thanks David, I suppose one of the silver linings of getting older is peer pressure losses its compulsive grip.

Ink Empress November 17, 2023 at 9:53 AM Those last lines hit deep, and i agree with what you’ve conveyed here: the way you’ve woven words is so profound and flows with so much wisdom. Paradox of being is being both or many.individually grounded but socially dependent. This is a very unique and very soulful write, absolutely loved reading this James Moore November 17, 2023 at 10:20 AM Thank you so much Empress. It seems the human condition to do/create and then doubt... a feedback loop that has led to our survival and remarkable success. But as an individual it isn't always so clear and pleasant.