Soulful Empathy

I wish someone had told me long ago
That empathy comes with a caveat, you know
It's not all about putting yourself in their shoes
And accepting the hurt they pass on to you

It's about understanding their pain and strife
And seeing why they lead a troubled life
But it's also about knowing when to draw the line
And not sacrificing your boundaries, which are yours and mine

For when we do that, we become a safe house
For all the demons that haunt and rouse
From within the ones we try to empathize with
And end up becoming their punching mitt

Their scars and wounds may be deep and raw
But they have no right to hurt you with their claws
And though they may not know how to heal
You cannot be their constant shield

For if you keep giving them excuses and room
To keep spreading their darkness and gloom
They'll never learn to do better, to rise
And you'll only be left with silent cries

So let empathy be a two-part tale
Of understanding and boundaries that never fail
Let us learn to be compassionate yet bold
And never let our own worth be sold.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2023

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Sangster - K Avatar
April 9, 2023 at 5:00 AM
A beautiful poem Maya with a powerful message. Thank you for sharing :-)
Evans Avatar
April 12, 2023 at 3:54 PM
Thank you for liking Anne. Have a great day.
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