Sometimes a Side Is Chosen For You

She was such a tomboy, her mother decided to make her more girly.
She dressed her in frilly pink and stuck bows in her hair.
She wanted to put fake nails on her, but Daddy nixed that.
She is fine, he told her. Let her be the way she is.

The more Daddy took her side, the closer she came to daddy.
When she came out in the ninth grade, she did not tell her mother.
She and her mother were distant, aloof and often estranged.
Mother was busy teaching her four-year-old boy to shoot guns.

He had no interest in them at all; he was a kind sensitive soul.
Hunting and killing were never going to be something he would do.
The mother spent her life wondering why her children never visited.
They were at her ex-husband’s house every weekend though.

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Date: 11/2/2021 3:53:00 AM
Well, this happens in life. I think we have to let the children lead us to what they like and then give them the opportunity to learn more about their interest/s provided their interest/s are not immoral, illegal, or dangerous(for a child). Sometimes a person needs to work on self before trying to guide a child. Sometimes a person needs to work on self before seeking a lifetime mate as well. Your visits to my page were encouraging. Sara
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 11/2/2021 9:48:00 AM
This is so true! Thank you for visiting Sara
Date: 11/1/2021 4:32:00 PM
I enjoyed your poem, and think you have made an important contribution to current discussions on a still sensitive issue. Wouldn't it be wonderful if all parents (and others) were much more like the father?
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 11/1/2021 11:18:00 PM
Thank you very much
Date: 11/1/2021 4:29:00 PM
I'm with Milt on this one....maybe under a pseudonym ..... a few copies .... here and there.....Very nicely done Caren
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 11/1/2021 11:18:00 PM
John, I appreciate your appreciation.
Date: 11/1/2021 10:56:00 AM
Wow...this is an exceptional write on the need to let children develop and grow into their own paths in life. I think this should be reprinted and sent home with every school child in America. Yeah. Definitely! No, don't do it, Caren. "They" would fire you.
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 11/1/2021 11:27:00 AM
Thank you so much for the compliment. I do not relish being fired yet; I guess I could do it on my retirement year a week before I leave.
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