Powerless Words

Words don't cause hurt. Words have no true power. Words can cause you to feel defeated but only if you allow it. Call me every possible foul name that might come to your mind. Insult the loss of a dear, departed loved one of mine' Use your words to reflect and express all that you consider unkind. It may work with others, but I pay it no mind. Besides, When ever anyone is rude to me, nasty with me, treating me unpleasantly, or when addressing me feel the compultion to scream and shout, I never take it personally and I mean that most sincerely. I always give all of them the benefit of doubt. No one consciously would treat me so miserably intentionally so I give them all the benefit of doubt that there's probably something going on in their life that's gone wrong. Something that I'll never ever know about. Perhaps they're suffering the loss of a loved one or friend. Perhaps a serious relationship has come to an end. Maybe they're just having the worst day that they have ever known. Maybe I just happened to be there when their fuse got blown, or maybe they are just plain miserable and always will be. You know what they say, Misery Loves Company. Maybe they unconsciously want to make everyone as miserable as they. I can allow that to happen or I can say No Way. * There's always a reason why others do the things that they do and there's no point in wasting energy trying to figure it all out. and so for me I choose the path of least resistance, I Give Everyone The Benefit Of Doubt. ...unless they truly cross the line. Then I Punch Their Lights Out.