Only Sixty Nine

It was so sad; she was only sixty-nine my friend said.
I was glad we were on the phone, so she could not see my expressions.
nothing sad about a sixty-nine-year-old with dementia dying in her sleep.

dying slowly in a mean, horrible cancer death when you are two is worse.
A young person committing suicide is worse.
A sixteen-year-old who texts and crashes their car is worse.

A woman with dementia dying peacefully in her sleep is grace.
I keep these thoughts to myself.
My father had dementia; it is not a Ferris wheel ride.

My mother was begging for death.
Cancer went from her lungs to her bones and her brain.
That is a horrific death.

Dying peacefully in your sleep at sixty-nine
this is what most of us can only hope for.
Instead, we are taken young and in brutal manners.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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Bauer Avatar
February 25, 2026 at 1:26 PM
you've expressed this so well, caren! i agree whole-heartedly...
Krutsinger Avatar
February 28, 2026 at 4:57 AM
thank you Ilene
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