Love Lost Haha

"its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" everytime i hear this saying it just drives me up the wall are you really serious? ... to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all??? it's kind of like saying lets go bowling without the bowling balls i cant stand this cliche it really makes me sick whoever made this saying up someone please beat them with a stick!!! it makes no sense to me to speak of love this way because if you truly loved someone you would forever always stay and what do you mean by "lost"? please reiterate on this word the blatant misuse of love is really quiet absurd true love is unconditional and can never be misplaced!!! to say that love can be lost is really a disgrace if someone loses love you can be certain they never had it!!! because a person who truly loves clings to love like an addict a mother who loves her child can never truly lose that feeling and to say that love is lost is not at all to me appealing the cliche itself it really does stink and i really dont care what other people think dont try to patronize me and say that true love can be lost because jesus died for everyone the passion upon the cross even with the passing of someone close to you love can not be lost if that love is really true so what kind of love do you speak of when you say that love can be lost? i believe that anyone who uses that cliche is more than a little off