Life and Growth

Mark taught the kids 
that it was fun to pick up the cans
and roll them along the floor 
of the supermarket Isle's 

Sarah screamed at the kids all day
the kids long past listening 
Sarah constantly attacked Mark
you're useless were's your brains

from girl friend to girl friend
Mark went
Mark was quick to bad mouth Sarah
Sarah was quick to bad mouth Mark

The kids grew to have no respect
the girls grew to get pregnant young
the boys grew up to do time in jail
the doctors gave a reason

the kids have attention deficit disorder
it's not your fault they have an illness
Yet when I took my son
to the supermarket 

He was not allowed to run wild
he was not allowed to roll cans
down the supermarket Isles 
he was not allowed to demand lollies

If he spoke with insults about other people
he had better have a good reason
if somebody punched him
I could understand his anger

but running people down 
without a good reason 
would have gained a reprimand
Behaviour is taught 

Respect is taught 
Kids copy what we do
if your attitude allows you to steal
your child learns to steal

yet the child also has a mind
sometimes the child will disagree
with the behaviour of the adult
and learn to do the opposite

taught to steal 
the child will decide and learn
to be honest
taught to hate the child will learn to laugh

life is not black and white
you are a big influence on your child
but you are not the only one
Parents, teachers, friends, strangers

and the child themselves 
all come together in the creation of a life
sometimes we copy
and sometimes we think for ourselves
Copyright © | Year Posted 2015

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January 27, 2016 at 10:19 PM
benard, enjoyed reading your poem, Please keep writing and sharing your poetry. XOX -- LINDA --
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