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Kids Resentment

It takes a long time 
To figure out if things went right
To find out if you did what was best
If you passed all those unknown test

An perfect life doesn't exist
Parenthood involves to many variables
Of which you cannot control

It is not easy raising a child
From preconception through to life
It is a hazardous journey
That is often thankless 
With pitfalls everywhere 
 
With no knowledge of how
Parent and child will interact
It is a game of trial and error
The books and classes you attend
Only generalize
The reality of birth upends
All perceived and expectant sureties

Navigating the pains of birth
The tantrums of toddler-hood
The blasé attitude of teenage
And the un-forgetfulness of adulthood
Is not a relaxing journey 
Both sides will often end up worst for wear

Bundles of joy can become
Vessels that distil all unsure steps
A learning process involves
Souring minds exposed
To overpowering parenting
Or insufficient love

Nurturing the person who now hates
Can only make one sad
Time doesn’t play fair
It doesn’t allow a rethink
Or a reliving of the past
So wrongs can be made right

Life is tough when you raise the next generation
You expect happiness but reality
Never quite hits the target of perfection
Is it best to just love and hope
Things won’t destroy you
And the child that looks up you?

Copyright © | Year Posted 2014




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