I'm sorry

Apologising all the time is often an after-effect of trauma; a self-preservation technique survivors may think they still need to utilise in order to protect themselves. 

Everyone is healing from something. Let's try to be kind to one another. 

Blessings.

I'm sorry
By Michelle Morris
11/12/2022

"I'm sorry" is something people often say
Whether they are really sorry or not
But once in a while you'll meet someone
Who says "I'm sorry" an awful lot

You might think them stupid
You might think them lame
You might think they're silly
Or that they're playing some game

But, if you do some research
Or if you choose to care
You might realise they've been abused
Deeply and irrevocably for years

Their childhood trauma lingers
Their abuse from too many years
Their spouse played on their feelings
And gaslit them with emotional fears

They are genuinely sorry
They really don't mean to keep saying it
They're so used to placating abusers
That it becomes second nature

So, if you meet a sweet person
Who says "I'm sorry" all the time
Please try to be patient and gentle
Consider compassion and being nice

© Michelle Morris, 2022
Copyright © | Year Posted 2022

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