Identity

As very young children, we did what we did in a non-reflective way
No critical thinking or questioning about our being okay.
As a school- age child other's reactions begin to be learned
Beginning to integrate how approval was something to be earned.
As a teen self-conscious and uncertain, as if being on display;
A persona affected by the audience of the day.
The pursuit of crossing that line
As a clearer self begins to define.
Less need for other's validation
More self-affirmation.
As less outer pursuant,
An individual more congruent.
Each a separate entity...
The cherished gift of identity.

09/04/15
Copyright © | Year Posted 2015

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September 14, 2015 at 1:10 PM
Barbara, congrats on your wonderful win. SKAT love :)
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September 14, 2015 at 2:27 PM
Skat, I am aware that you take the time to contact me whenever I have a poem that receives recognition. It may not seem like much effort to you, but to me it one of the big rewards for taking the time to set to paper my thoughts and feelings.
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September 14, 2015 at 4:37 AM
Superb take with this very lovely write Barbara n a great win ! Big congrats!
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September 14, 2015 at 7:58 AM
Thanks again!! Barbara
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September 6, 2015 at 12:05 AM
Barbara, love the write a 7. Children are innocent hugs eve
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September 6, 2015 at 12:46 AM
Thank you for the number 7. I know it is something good, but I honestly do not know where it comes from. I have been trying to figure it out; I'm not as good at navigating this site as I would like to be. Barbara
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September 5, 2015 at 12:30 AM
YES, our identity keeps shaping up until we blossom into adults with our unique set of ideas and values. nicely done.
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September 5, 2015 at 5:04 AM
Andrea. As always, thank you for spending time to read my poetry and reflecting. Barbara
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