Help Yourself

It is a great thing to do for others
But sometimes that can go too far
We want to be a help to our brothers
But it is too easy to lose who we are

Instinctively we want to do as asked
If someone needs our help
But then we find ourselves doing a hundred tasks
We go round and round that carousel

We can sometimes feel selfish
For taking care of ourselves first
But the alternative can be hellish
When you find yourself overworked

By well-meaning friends and family
Who sometimes don't mean so well
And will occasionally take advantage
If you are having a generosity spell

I know it can be hard to decline
But sometimes it must be done
Life is yours alone to define
Don't be pushed around by anyone
Copyright © | Year Posted 2013

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That Archaic Poet Avatar
August 25, 2013 at 9:57 AM
Beautifully expressed truth within this piece, and you have penned some verses that I wish I had written, and I'm a little jealous lol. For instance: "Life is yours alone to define"- absolutely beautiful and true. Great job! :)
Michael Ikechukwu Avatar
August 20, 2013 at 11:39 AM
Thoughtful piece, this is.
Mohammed Avatar
August 18, 2013 at 7:43 PM
Your words are filled with much wisdom.
Cavanaugh Avatar
August 17, 2013 at 12:19 AM
good advice. good poem. Bravo!
Dua Avatar
August 16, 2013 at 7:02 AM
Hey there !! Enjoyed stopping by reading this lovely write of yours !! loved it ! :) , Love , Saanvi
Onclaud Avatar
August 15, 2013 at 1:37 PM
yessss, this expresssion of inner care resounds... absolutely empowering and lovely,april ...:) huggs
Ellison Avatar
August 15, 2013 at 7:40 AM
Wilma says we need to be selfish sometimes... I have no problem with that!!! LOL Great write dear April xoxox
Neels Avatar
August 15, 2013 at 6:19 AM
April, can definitely identify with this piece, we need to be selfish sometimes.. Love this message, hope your day is a good one :) Wilma
Andresen Avatar
August 14, 2013 at 12:46 PM
- It's nice to be a helpful person .... but it should not be utilized. - A well written poem, April. - oxox / / Anne-Lise :)
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