Notes About The Poem

Haven't been here in awhile. Sometimes, I choose not to be the source of another's, a narcissist's, entertainment. This poem, Grey Rock, explains it. There is what is called the Grey Rock Method used to avoid and/or stay out of a narcissist's attention span. More can be read about it here: https://180rule.com/the-gray-rock-method-of-dealing-with-psychopaths/

Grey Rock

"Grey Rock"

I am just a Grey Rock. With all the rest I blend
To keep away a narcissist, an enemy not a friend.
If I remain uninteresting, unattractive, and dull,
I am like a stalk of corn with no corn to hull.

A Grey Rock attracts no attention to a narc's eye
And therefore, won't be fodder for a narc's supply,
Which, for their survival, they require upon to feast,
To fill in their black hole, they have from satan, leased.

A narcissist needs drama to feed on and thrive,
Along with flying monkeys to keep their goals alive,
Of destroying others to give themselves a lift.
Otherwise, through life, they aimlessly will drift.

So, if I seem rather quiet, in the background, faded,
It's to stay in the shadows, where I am and feel shaded.
From time to time I'll be more than a Grey Rock in a pile,
But solitude brings me a peaceful living style.

Perhaps, the narcissist, who's been stalking me for years
Will become very bored and afflicted with the drears,
When he finds he is being no longer entertained,
Because my presence by him cannot be obtained.

Since technology enables him to my life, invade,
Being just a Grey Rock, blended, in the shade,
Disables his intrusion by squelching his desire.
Where there are no sparks, there can be no fire.

Being dull, unattractive, boring, unappealing,
Has been peacefully rewarding and too, revealing.
A Grey Rock, from a narc, attracts no attention.
Hence, all the more reason to pursue this intention.

Written by Artsieladie/Sharon Donnelly
©2019-02-23 11:08:00 (EST)
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Allison Avatar
April 18, 2019 at 1:37 PM
Dropping back again to say hopefully one day the rock will be crushed and you can get back to a normal life, I can sadly relate hence the reason why I spend less time on the site - wish these morons would get a life:-(hugs Jan xx
Messina Avatar
March 10, 2019 at 8:17 AM
Well said and wonderfully written, Sharon. I second everything Jan has said. Sorry you are going through this. Charlie
Allison Avatar
March 4, 2019 at 2:41 AM
Bravo - you tell him Sharon its such a shame this moron is still doing his damage and invading your life and that you have to blend into the background and stop doing what you do so well with your poetry. I hope this hacker can be stopped in their tracks, they may have taken over your computer its awful its taking such a toll your life:-(hugs Jan xx
Krutsinger Avatar
February 27, 2019 at 6:37 AM
Wow, Sharon. This is wonderfully done. "If I remain uninteresting, unattractive, and dull, I am like a stalk of corn with no corn to hull." Love your metaphor. Beautifully done.
Cunningham Avatar
February 27, 2019 at 2:58 AM
Well written Sharon and welcome back. I hope you haven't been Bothered ' on here, I know of some who have. Interesting verse, checked out the link too as id never heard of it. Tom.
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