Discretion

Our lack of discretion when speaking,
Oft times become our failing.
When with words we mortally wound,
Or leave one's psyche ailing.

Often, without intent, on anothers feelings,
Without thought we do trample.
And any after the fact apology,
Is never, to the hurt, considered ample.

Perhaps in jest, we've chosen just to tease,
Or without thinking, too quickly spoken.
Later, wishing, from belated sorrow,
That we could fix the heart we've broken.

But how can we know one's mood,
Or if in fact they might feel abused.
And because our ego's are fragile,
We've unwittingly hurt with words we've used.

So let us pause if we can't be certain,
Just what their heart is feeling.
Considering that things we might say,
May cause another to start reeling.

For many is the time an achy heart,
Is devastated while vulnerable and bare,
Because not thinking someone spoke aloof,
Or worse yet, that person refused to care.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2008

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Konos Avatar
May 6, 2015 at 1:31 PM
My mom repeated to her children, "Always put yourself in the other person's place and ask yourself, How would I feel if that were me and you'll never go wrong!" Your poetry brought back memories...thank you
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May 3, 2015 at 8:26 PM
Tom, Congratulations on having your poem featured this week. SKAT love
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May 3, 2015 at 8:18 PM
TOM, Dropped by to say hi and congratulate you on having your poem selected by Soup's Administration. This is a wonderful poem to have featured on the homepage. ~Always & Forever~ LINDA
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December 9, 2008 at 7:15 AM
Well said my friend! The 'sticks and stones' saying is way off base... words DO hurt, often with disastrous consequences. Best wishes, Keith
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