By Yourself

Henry wants to do things 
“By yourself," as he will say,
Asserting independence
Every step along the way.

At two years old (well, plus a half)
He’ll heartily rebuff
All offers of assistance
(And you cannot call his bluff).

It’s fascinating watching
As he comes into his own,
With aspects of himself that will
Remain when he is grown.

But now, as an observer,
I can give him what he needs – 
The space to do things “by yourself”
In hope that he succeeds.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2016

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Murray Avatar
April 19, 2016 at 3:32 PM
Those terrible twos. They are only trying to become themselves.
Allison Avatar
April 8, 2016 at 11:44 PM
Wise words indeed Ilene - its the way they learn by doing things for themselves... even though at times it is so tempting to do it for them:-) hugs Jan xx
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