When you are in the process of a remaking, the confinement, your cocoon, or the situation remaking you, is painstaking. It can feel like a life sentence. You forget who you thought you were and become what the event is chiseling you into. Your remaking, if it isn’t making you better, making you stronger, or more qualified to do or be what you long to do or aspire to... then you are not yet acquired your freedom wings.