Battle of Struggles

He said, "I will never really know the struggles of a black man."
Well he has clearly forgotten that I have to be more than a woman.
You see I am mommy & daddy to a beautiful little girl.
I have to serve, protect and provide for her place in this beautifully crazy world.
I have to be the father my daddy and her daddy didn’t have the courage to be.
I have to carry that load all on me.
Not to mention, in heels to ensure I’m still keeping my feminine appeal.
With a smile and grace to disguise how I truly feel.
I have to embrace my own desires later, whenever that maybe.
Because I am committed to a greater cause, my family!
And because I’m still woman and that first, they still too discredit me.
Trying to conform and limit my abilities.
So that man shoe, I have definitely filled.
Because that man pressures, demands & etc I also feel.
And not just second hand like smoke.
As my journey includes different men with different strokes.
So the struggle is far from sexist and that I can respect. 
In fact, the struggle is how and where we all can connect.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2010

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Mehta Avatar
November 24, 2010 at 5:27 PM
Happy thanksgiving day, brandi
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November 24, 2010 at 9:43 AM
Please continue to share your poetry with us here at PoetrySoup. Wishing you and yours a wonderful Thanksgiving Brandi. Love, Carol
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November 19, 2010 at 12:53 PM
So devastating when men run away!
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November 16, 2010 at 3:47 PM
thankxx Brandi for your sweet and cool comment on my poetry .. always happy to hear from the new poets ..hope u will check out the contests ..they are so fun..luv..
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November 16, 2010 at 10:35 AM
Brandi, this is a fantastic write. You are such a good voice for woman humanity, I want to encourage. I feel your humanity in this poem, and want to bring you helping hand ... so you will know not all the world is callous and cold ... but something deeper and more mysterious divides our fold. Now only God is left to make us like a poem again, beautiful. Good write.
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November 15, 2010 at 8:51 AM
I would like to welcome you to PoetrySoup Brandi. Wishing you the best in your writing endeavors. You can look to the left side of the main page and find lots of information on PoetrySoup including contests by members of PoetrySoup and contests by the PoetrySoup site also which you as a new member and us oldies also may enter. If you have questions please feel free to ask ANYONE here. We are ALL willing to help and if we don't know the answer we will find someone who does. Love, Carol
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November 15, 2010 at 8:34 AM
Welcome to Poetry Soup.. so enjoyed reading your poetry today with its creative theme.. hope your time on Soup will be special and fun.. check out the contests offered to members ..good luck with luv..
Mehta Avatar
November 13, 2010 at 1:04 PM
Nice thoughts on the struggle in life you have penned, Brandi
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November 13, 2010 at 10:34 AM
Bravo!!! good for you, stand on your own and make your day your way....love this write...always Michael
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