Alone and Abused

When couples tie the nuptial knot, They hope to leave the lonely lot. But far too many newlyweds, Soon realize their dream has fled. Instead of being bone of bone, They live as married and alone. Feelings become easily bruised, sparking a cycle of abuse. The childhood wounds that failed to heal, greatly affects the way they feel. The hateful words hurt spouses say, sear the soul and those old wounds flay. When violence enters the milieu The victim feels trapped and unfree. Their mind is numb and thoughts unclear, As each new day they live in fear. The scowling stares, they take their toll, by slowly stressing sore the soul. The victim, anxious and depressed Even in sleep cannot find rest. The careless words of a dear friend, crass counselors that do not mend, a church not caring, callous, cold, engender suffering untold. Daily existence feels like hell, as the soul shrinks to a mere shell. And then the thoughts begin to tend, To suicide as welcome friend. Is there hope for this sad state, When dreams of love explode in hate. The God of love who made you both, Desires to foster your growth. Stop thinking of who is to blame, End the name-calling and the shame. The path to wholeness starts with you, So, look inside and change your view. Start looking deep inside your brain. Explore the hurts that cause you pain. Ask God above to soothe and heal, And cause your heart His love to feel. As each of you begins to heal, And God’s great love begins to feel. The grace of God your hearts will fuse, You’ll love your spouse and not abuse.