Notes About The Poem

In our time, aside from death, we have little personal experience of what it means to say farewell completely and forever, a final farewell. We are never separated by more than a phone call or a plane ride. This was not true before in history, much less prehistory, when a journey of much distance was frequently an absolute separation for the rest of life. 

And it will not be true in the future, either, because we live in a universe with a ridiculously low speed limit (the speed of light). Just to communicate via geosynchronous satellite introduces a delay of a quarter of a second. When we have settlements on the Moon, the delay will be over a second, making coversation difficult. On Mars, never less than four minutes. And when we have spread to even the nearest stars the delay will be years. Conversation and real interaction will give way to outdated reports, and we, in whatever form we may then take, will learn again what our ancestors knew, what it means to say a final farewell. (It is interesting that for AIs, because they think much faster than we do relative to the speed of light, the distance over which real interactivity is possible is much shorter than it is for us: about ten million times shorter.)

It is, I admit, odd to compose a song of final farewell at the unique point in time in which we generally lack the personal experience to fully understand what the song means. But that makes it an interesting challenge. The domain of a poet is the whole of life, not just their own.

 

 

 

A Song of Final Farewell

Will you go, John, from the land of your elders, from the land of your friends?
Will it be so, John, that your spot at the table, will always be bare?

It seems to me – some good things have rolled upon the years, 
As the seasons swirled about us, as our little lives unfurled;
It seems to me we stood as if two lions against the Fates, 
Never wavering in misfortune, never silent in our joys;
It seems to me, the tapestry of life need not be torn,
That existence might well roll on, ever deeper, through all time;
It seems to me, it seems it might be so. 

But perhaps you judged it different, John, and perhaps you judged it right;
Perhaps you have a hand to play that’s greater than our ways;
Perhaps there comes a time in which a lion must take his leave.
And if so, John, if so, then, well, well then, well then,

Well then, go, John, across the measure of distance, across the measure of time;
Well then, know, John, that the parting of furlongs, is not the parting of hearts.

It seems to me – some good things, may come when something dies;
That a garden left here vacant is another garden grown; 
It seems to me, some glory may well dawn on distant stars;
It seems to me, your life will find its worth;
It seems to me, some part of us, will go to your new land;
It seems to me, some part of you will stay;
It seems to me, we lose a man we cherish in our hearts;
And it seems to me, they’ll know us by the value of our gift.

We love you, Johnny.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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