Notes About The Poem

For Regina Mcintosh's " Write to a Friend" poetry contest 

Dedicated to my nearest and dearest of friends:
If you see yourself in this poem, you know who you are. 

A Letter to an Authentic Friend

To the friends I value – most are authentic,
which means they also are a tad eccentric!

Thus, friend, with you I can say anything,
and blessings to the table you always bring.

You bring me understanding and compassion.
These days it seems such things aren’t quite in fashion.

You don’t mock my beliefs; I don’t mock yours.
You trust me, and my trust in you assures . . .

we are free to be ourselves in all we say
to one another any given time of day.

We know each other’s strengths; that’s great because
we also know (but do not judge) each other’s flaws.

You build me up when I’m unsure. I hope
to help you when it’s hard for YOU to cope.

The way we think may not always be
exactly the same, but that’s okay by me.

In a world where divisiveness is rife,
it’s good to have a friend like you for life.

And yes, it is "for life" when friends are true
because you value me as I value you.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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October 3, 2026 at 9:42 PM
Awwwn yes that's what friendship is all about! Understanding each other, whilst highlighting each other's strength, choosing the other despite the flaws! So touching and heartwarming this poem is, sweet Andrea, blessed are those who are able to find such trustworthy souls in a lifetime. We must cherish them! loved reading this, a celebration of friendship ~ best of luck in the contest, sweet soul 🍂 🍁 💫 🧚
Dietrich Avatar
October 3, 2026 at 8:13 PM
Thanks, Caycay. We are both blessed!
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October 3, 2026 at 7:04 PM
Poem is filled with touching sentiments. Like, David, I think being your friend would be a blessing. I put this ode to a friend who is a different shaped puzzle piece from yours yet clicks into yours, forming one supportive piece, in my FAVs. It's beautiful. On 5th stanza, capitalize 'we' because we know how important '5' and 'we' are. ABDP ... CayCay
Theraven Avatar
October 3, 2026 at 6:59 PM
Well Hello Andrea, You always bring something surprising to the table and this poem, this wonderful letter is no exception. -Richard
Dietrich Avatar
October 3, 2026 at 8:11 PM
Thanks so much!
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October 3, 2026 at 5:09 PM
Friendship is sure valuable, and, haha, I hope I'm one of these friends!
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October 3, 2026 at 8:10 PM
I say you fit these criteria, Dave!!
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