Journey of Tomorrow 202
Second Chances? Destiny, maybe...
Hi let me introduce myself, everyone calls me BLUE. It’s because I’ve always been wearing clothes of that color but according to Michelle Neff, Michigan State University Extension - .
“Those with Blue color personality strengths tend to be enthusiastic, sympathetic, communicative, compassionate, idealistic, sincere and imaginative. They care and want to contribute to everything they are a part of. Relationships are important to blues.
Blue personality temperaments can be good listeners, talk about the possibilities and like to do new things. Conflict or disharmony can upset a Blue. They show concern for feelings in others and have tactful ways of communicating.
When working with Blues, it is important to reassure them of their self-worth and recognize their accomplishments. It is also important to be empathetic with them as well as believe and trust them. Give Blues opportunities to demonstrate creativity, work with and mentor others and communicate.”
See but not everyone likes one color, but it’s dominant for me because it always rhyme with the word TRUE. I can only honor a few people due to this belief or they simply diminished over time. In this world not everyone will be a friend that you can believe nor trust. But if there’s such chance that one of them do become trustworthy enough, keep them and never lie to that person…
The one thing that I learned during the past I don’t believe in second chances, but maybe for fate/destiny I might... They’re completely different for me, because fate/destiny can mean unlimited or limited chance(s). This means you can be at the right time and right place but with the wrong person. And this 3 situations could be very much interchangeable. But this doesn’t also mean that one day could all be right for you and/or me.
Let me tell you about someone whom I would never even imagine to like all of a sudden or I could be just completely ignoring my own feeling for her. We’re old buddies and here’s a little description about her presently this December 2021…
She likes to wear clothes that are comfy
I love that hair so swirly
She has those big brown eyes
That when you look, time flies
She won’t notice her beauty
While everyone can say she’s pretty
She’s just too kind
Her heart was a treasure hard to find
We met during the in our last 2 years as seniors, everything was a rush and bit blurry from what I can recall since it was more than a decade ago. In our school, boys and girls must be separated once they reach their senior years. Despite this rule I manage to court girls and yes I admit to have broken a few hearts but it doesn’t mean they didn’t break me too. This is how life happens even in the early stages and in some worst cases just before being born.
But let’s not dig in too deep, I want to prove to you that second chances are perceived in the wrong way. For me life cannot be like a game that when you lose, you can repeat each level and become even better at it. Your life is up to you to drive whether you go left, right, straight or even backwards sometimes. But you can never tell what will happen next, so for me life is always that ONE great adventure! Because you cannot go back in time although you are free to redo a situation.
Let me tell you this, why would people want to go back in the same situation? It’s because they haven’t had acceptance to what happened or perhaps they had never seen it coming. Just like a storm it’s unpredictable; let’s say it tore your house today then you rebuild it. Then again another storm tore your newly built home. But for the 10th time when the storm came it couldn’t break nor damage your home? Second chances is overrated for this things… but people often say when you’re in that love bubble it’s different, I say nope!
Let’s put that into a perspective, exhibit A- 2 coworkers went on a 2 day beach trip having $250 and $450 respectively. Now just the travel ticket alone cost them both $100 back and forth, food is about $130 all day long, other necessity and fun activities about $80. So since they are coworker there’s no reason he/she could not lend and be paid back for. That’s when I was wrong because I was never paid back for about $120 and it doesn’t happen once. I’m sure everyone somehow will experience this in time.
Money proves who you should trust and those who might just keep using you. I’m telling you that even if you’re in that love bubble ehhh... you’ll be robbed of your time, efforts, even sometimes drives you insane. See MONEY is actually TIME not everyone believes this but it’s actually true. There should be no what ifs moment because those moments should be faced in order to know and remove that anxious feeling. Be open minded they say? I say do your own research and find out if such things are real or not.
My life was like the sun and moon relationship. As a human we learned that they always shine but will fade due to the rotation of the Earth. So let’s pretend that our planet has eyes. We can look at the sun like a beacon of hope shining so bright that every other planet is pulled by it. As for the moon some may have them but some don’t. The reason is, that it was created due to some collision in the universe which concludes the whole galaxy. Our moon is something special without this we might not see for what I call, A little hope.
It won’t shine brighter than the sun, but it is enough to have because you just wanted a rest. I may not be in my half-life yet; but I figured out that during my rest period I asked myself, what do I truly believe in? Let’s go back and consider the 3 things, place, time and person.
I believe that what should happen will happen. When it does everything will make sense. Signs? Well it seems more like clues to me and it’s up to us to choose. There’s destiny that actually contradicts our choices, well no it doesn’t. It can be like this, you chose a person and think that he/she is “THE ONE”. Now not everyone experience to be so lucky to find a so called soulmate. Luck is another story which I also don’t believe because time/effort is always needed to make relationship work. Anyways your chosen, “love bubble partner” has a chance to be changed. Life is tricky you may never know whom you’re destined for but the clues are there and well for me I like that song called, BONES by Galantis, feat. OneRepublic.
You have to listen and actually feel your heart, yeah it sounds cheezy and unbelievably crazy! But trust me it works! I have been constantly listening now and that’s how I know this time around I’m no longer wasting my time for silly things. I’m choosing to be open to what I think and know feels right. Time will tell when you’re in that right place to be in your life that everything just feels easy. Whatever you were praying for before has finally arrived and I bet you’ll be thanking God every single day that you believed and has never since then stop trusting. Even if you didn’t have everything yet.
But I’m no perfect guy and I can say this proudly that everyone makes a lot of mistakes in life but never ever let it fool you to stay down. Fight back and believe again in yourself and that a higher being is guiding you to a better path. Making you stronger than before. Go make time with your family, friends and have fun, despite the bad situations. There’s no one stopping you to be positive it’s all in your mind. You need to solve your destiny by looking into the clues around they’re there.
So she asked me one time, how do you know? And I just told her, I know and I feel right with it but maybe not the place. But when it comes to her I just couldn’t lie not because I was afraid nope, I was actually falling for her unknowingly. There’s gonna be a single person that as they call soulmate, yeah I believe in this, and somehow too many signs that I can’t even explain how, when and why.
There’s that energy that will flow in you, that makes you feel like dancing, showing your true colors, and not afraid to be yourself. That’s how I knew she is the right person and no one else. I’d like to put all my money in equivalent to time in this basket. I’m not betting but I’m merely stating a fact that if you truly love that person go for it! Work and put effort in it constantly my friends, chances isn’t given easily. Prove that you can and own your destiny and/or fate in life, it’s only up to you.
Yes so many things will interfere I’ve been there, but you will feel it when the timing is so perfectly imperfect. If you can get your family, friends, work and self-goals right or even just start having one thing right in these then my friend(s) you’re in the right path. No more doubts or if you are in doubt then I suggest take that long period of jogging works for me. Oh! I almost forgot, her name well... let's just say she’s awesam!
Until next time everyone! Keep on staying safe!
From your friendly colored friend,
BLUE
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